Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Women who play “hard to get”

SeymourCake

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Women who play hard to get aren’t playing hard to get. They are disinterested. A woman who is genuinely interested in you won’t play mind games and will let you know directly how she feels about you because she would not be able to contain herself. Do you think a female who has a crush on a male celebrity like Justin Bieber or Brad Pitt would play hard to get if they interacted with these men? The answer is no.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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What would you say to a “maybe”.
Withdraw the offer. Say nevermind, you seem occupied so I'll make plans with some friends instead.

BTW, there is no hard to get. Just interest and disinterest.
 

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What would you say to a “maybe”.
I wouldn't say anything. I'd be dust in the wind.

Withdrawing the offer is beta shyte. It comes across as butthurt IMO no matter how you slice it.

At best my response would be "k" and if she never reached back out, she would never hear from me again.
Withdraw the offer. Say nevermind, you seem occupied so I'll make plans with some friends instead.

BTW, there is no hard to get. Just interest and disinterest.

Miss Taro: What should I say to an invitation from a strange gentleman?
James Bond: You should say yes.
Miss Taro: [shaking her head] I should say maybe
James Bond: 3 o’clock. My hotel, maybe?
Miss Taro: Yes, maybe
James Bond: Good
 
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