"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Women who over romanticize their profiles

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Was reading over a recent dating profile, pretty hot for llate 40s. Keeps in tip top shape for a woman of my location considering most women around here look like the "people of Wal-Mart". lol



In the area where she says, "What I'm best at.." she says:

"There are a few things that I am good at and enjoy doing but I really think that I am good at helping people, making someone smile, or just making them laugh … oh yeah I forgot… I absolutely love to kiss and I am good at that! I do enjoy kissing passionately the man I am with..so He MUST be a great kisser."

In other parts of her profile she mentions again kissing and references to passion.

I this all really necessary...as I would figured it's a given, yes? Or is she just trying to get her readers horny?
 
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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Sounds like she's describing herself as an outgoing, giving, passion for life kind of woman to me.
Nice shape…
She's worth a shot in my book
 
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I don't think a lot of women put much thought into their profiles.

Her mentioning "kissing" multiple times doesn't mean much to me other than it is very important to her and she wants a guy that is good at it. I'd guess there is a direct path between the lips on her face and those btwn her legs.

And I'll bet there was some guy in her recent past that wasn't a good kisser and lacked passion! I wouldn't mind finding out for sure tho. ;-)
 

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Sounds like she's describing herself as an outgoing, giving, passion for life kind of woman to me.
Nice shape…
She's worth a shot in my book
True, I even followed up with on how good I am with my hands in addition to lips. lol. Must be good genes that were passed down or she gets her water shipped from somewhere else. lol I can kind of tell she had some surgery on her face though.

Last time I saw a woman that age with that thin of a waistline was a long time.
 
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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A womans words are as valuable in this world as a mans kindness.
Yes, but at least she's trying to portray herself as a good romantic girl, instead of the aging party slvt she is. At any rate she's still worth taking out for a test drive.
 
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The thing is, there are some things that aren't necessary to mention because if it even gets as far as kissing, there's no way of knowing if the guy that's contacting her is a good kisser. So basically, she would have to try out every guy that contacts her. lol
 

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If she tried to portray herself as a good girl she wouldnt show off her fake body without clothes on. To me she seems like an aging party slut with so much botox and makeup that she reminds me of the cat woman who tried operating her face to look like a...cat

I dont like girls with demands already in their profile, just a turn off. We all know how much maintenance they are already. I would still bang her body tho, some nice fake teets.
 

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The thing is, there are some things that aren't necessary to mention because if it even gets as far as kissing, there's no way of knowing if the guy that's contacting her is a good kisser. So basically, she would have to try out every guy that contacts her. lol
Make her close her eyes and open her mouth then you give her the D
 

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Just ask her out already. Send her a note. It matters not what she wrote in her profile. Ask her out, use your magic and make hot s ex happen.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Ugh. Botox, implants, surgery and a whole host of baggage. No thanks.
 

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Ugh. Botox, implants, surgery and a whole host of baggage. No thanks.
Eh, I dont hate the player, I just charge it to the game. That's the only way this woman possibly compete with a natural, beautiful 20 yr old.

I couldn't imagine having to compete for the same men against someone who's 10-15-20 years younger lol
 

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Was reading over a recent dating profile, pretty hot for llate 40s. Keeps in tip top shape for a woman of my location considering most women around here look like the "people of Wal-Mart". lol



In the area where she says, "What I'm best at.." she says:

"There are a few things that I am good at and enjoy doing but I really think that I am good at helping people, making someone smile, or just making them laugh … oh yeah I forgot… I absolutely love to kiss and I am good at that! I do enjoy kissing passionately the man I am with..so He MUST be a great kisser."

In other parts of her profile she mentions again kissing and references to passion.

I this all really necessary...as I would figured it's a given, yes? Or is she just trying to get her readers horny?
Shooped photo, lots of blurring.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I was wondering, why do that to your face, when you have a body like that?
 
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