"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Women who over romanticize their profiles

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Was reading over a recent dating profile, pretty hot for llate 40s. Keeps in tip top shape for a woman of my location considering most women around here look like the "people of Wal-Mart". lol



In the area where she says, "What I'm best at.." she says:

"There are a few things that I am good at and enjoy doing but I really think that I am good at helping people, making someone smile, or just making them laugh … oh yeah I forgot… I absolutely love to kiss and I am good at that! I do enjoy kissing passionately the man I am with..so He MUST be a great kisser."

In other parts of her profile she mentions again kissing and references to passion.

I this all really necessary...as I would figured it's a given, yes? Or is she just trying to get her readers horny?
 
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Sounds like she's describing herself as an outgoing, giving, passion for life kind of woman to me.
Nice shape…
She's worth a shot in my book
 
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I don't think a lot of women put much thought into their profiles.

Her mentioning "kissing" multiple times doesn't mean much to me other than it is very important to her and she wants a guy that is good at it. I'd guess there is a direct path between the lips on her face and those btwn her legs.

And I'll bet there was some guy in her recent past that wasn't a good kisser and lacked passion! I wouldn't mind finding out for sure tho. ;-)
 

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Sounds like she's describing herself as an outgoing, giving, passion for life kind of woman to me.
Nice shape…
She's worth a shot in my book
True, I even followed up with on how good I am with my hands in addition to lips. lol. Must be good genes that were passed down or she gets her water shipped from somewhere else. lol I can kind of tell she had some surgery on her face though.

Last time I saw a woman that age with that thin of a waistline was a long time.
 
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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A womans words are as valuable in this world as a mans kindness.
Yes, but at least she's trying to portray herself as a good romantic girl, instead of the aging party slvt she is. At any rate she's still worth taking out for a test drive.
 
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The thing is, there are some things that aren't necessary to mention because if it even gets as far as kissing, there's no way of knowing if the guy that's contacting her is a good kisser. So basically, she would have to try out every guy that contacts her. lol
 

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If she tried to portray herself as a good girl she wouldnt show off her fake body without clothes on. To me she seems like an aging party slut with so much botox and makeup that she reminds me of the cat woman who tried operating her face to look like a...cat

I dont like girls with demands already in their profile, just a turn off. We all know how much maintenance they are already. I would still bang her body tho, some nice fake teets.
 

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The thing is, there are some things that aren't necessary to mention because if it even gets as far as kissing, there's no way of knowing if the guy that's contacting her is a good kisser. So basically, she would have to try out every guy that contacts her. lol
Make her close her eyes and open her mouth then you give her the D
 

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Just ask her out already. Send her a note. It matters not what she wrote in her profile. Ask her out, use your magic and make hot s ex happen.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Ugh. Botox, implants, surgery and a whole host of baggage. No thanks.
 

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Ugh. Botox, implants, surgery and a whole host of baggage. No thanks.
Eh, I dont hate the player, I just charge it to the game. That's the only way this woman possibly compete with a natural, beautiful 20 yr old.

I couldn't imagine having to compete for the same men against someone who's 10-15-20 years younger lol
 

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Was reading over a recent dating profile, pretty hot for llate 40s. Keeps in tip top shape for a woman of my location considering most women around here look like the "people of Wal-Mart". lol



In the area where she says, "What I'm best at.." she says:

"There are a few things that I am good at and enjoy doing but I really think that I am good at helping people, making someone smile, or just making them laugh … oh yeah I forgot… I absolutely love to kiss and I am good at that! I do enjoy kissing passionately the man I am with..so He MUST be a great kisser."

In other parts of her profile she mentions again kissing and references to passion.

I this all really necessary...as I would figured it's a given, yes? Or is she just trying to get her readers horny?
Shooped photo, lots of blurring.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I was wondering, why do that to your face, when you have a body like that?
 
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