"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Women who give up in their region

ThisNThat

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Have you come across single women that have told you that they've pretty much given up on meeting men in real life when out and about because they've pretty much concluded, through the years of living in their city...that there hasn't yet been a man that they had come across that they'd have any interest in dating.

That they completely discount their area altogether, and thus remain unattached indefinitely? This resorts to them going online usually.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Yes.

But if they couldn't find anyone in their region, it means they are sh!t, even in a small community.
 

ThisNThat

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This. I think it can be indicative of trouble in the woman. That's the first impression I get.

Probably has dumped/gotten dumped by a lot of guys, probably has an ex she can't get over, probably doesn't get on with people, maybe has unrealistic standards, etc.
Yeah, I'm guessing these are the ones that only their Sat nights on dating sites, remaining permanent fixtures of the Internet.
 
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