MatureDJ
Master Don Juan
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Women who dress like their children
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Serialized3
Master Don Juan
Honestly just kind of feel sorry for these women...
Victory Unlimited
Master Don Juan
I don't see anything wrong with women (or men) dressing in a way that they believe will highlight their assets. But for everyone, there comes a time where what you wear starts to highlight how much you DON'T "still have it" as opposed to how much you "do".
Of course, the difference between the two is always in the eye of the beholder at the end of the day.
Ironically, the biggest red flag to me was the whole "my mom is my BFF - best friend" thing. A lot of times when you hear women say this, what's really going on here is that they probably have a mom that they think of as more of a "peer" than as an AUTHORITY FIGURE.
And most of the time that I hear random women say this, I've found that those particular women are usually a little more uncooperative and out of control as a result of them not having enough of a healthy level of "respect" for their moms-----------like they probably should.
VU
Of course, the difference between the two is always in the eye of the beholder at the end of the day.
Ironically, the biggest red flag to me was the whole "my mom is my BFF - best friend" thing. A lot of times when you hear women say this, what's really going on here is that they probably have a mom that they think of as more of a "peer" than as an AUTHORITY FIGURE.
And most of the time that I hear random women say this, I've found that those particular women are usually a little more uncooperative and out of control as a result of them not having enough of a healthy level of "respect" for their moms-----------like they probably should.
VU
Scars
Master Don Juan
Not going to lie, there have been times where I have seen a woman from behind and thought damnnn. She has the perfectly straightened hair with some sort of coloring or highlights, nice skinny body, usually has a nice butt accompanied by some tight jeans, and then she turns around and... I see the wrinkles and "matured" face and think WTF?!
My first thought is generally, her daughter picks her wardrobe or she mimics it. I really don't know what to think of these woman. They just strike me as woman who have long lived their "peak" era and never grew out of the attention wh0ring stage. I don't really understand why they dress this way, unless they are trying to seduce young men like myself, which I can honestly say, isn't working. But who knows what I'd do after a 12 pack. Haha.
-Scars
My first thought is generally, her daughter picks her wardrobe or she mimics it. I really don't know what to think of these woman. They just strike me as woman who have long lived their "peak" era and never grew out of the attention wh0ring stage. I don't really understand why they dress this way, unless they are trying to seduce young men like myself, which I can honestly say, isn't working. But who knows what I'd do after a 12 pack. Haha.
-Scars
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
There is a reason why older women shouldn't dress like they are in their 20's, they cannot compete with younger women and they shouldn't attempt to do so. If they do then they shouldn't be surprised if they are called cougars and are used for ONS.