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Master Don Juan
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Women who dress like their children
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Serialized3
Master Don Juan
Honestly just kind of feel sorry for these women...
Victory Unlimited
Master Don Juan
I don't see anything wrong with women (or men) dressing in a way that they believe will highlight their assets. But for everyone, there comes a time where what you wear starts to highlight how much you DON'T "still have it" as opposed to how much you "do".
Of course, the difference between the two is always in the eye of the beholder at the end of the day.
Ironically, the biggest red flag to me was the whole "my mom is my BFF - best friend" thing. A lot of times when you hear women say this, what's really going on here is that they probably have a mom that they think of as more of a "peer" than as an AUTHORITY FIGURE.
And most of the time that I hear random women say this, I've found that those particular women are usually a little more uncooperative and out of control as a result of them not having enough of a healthy level of "respect" for their moms-----------like they probably should.
VU
Of course, the difference between the two is always in the eye of the beholder at the end of the day.
Ironically, the biggest red flag to me was the whole "my mom is my BFF - best friend" thing. A lot of times when you hear women say this, what's really going on here is that they probably have a mom that they think of as more of a "peer" than as an AUTHORITY FIGURE.
And most of the time that I hear random women say this, I've found that those particular women are usually a little more uncooperative and out of control as a result of them not having enough of a healthy level of "respect" for their moms-----------like they probably should.
VU
Scars
Master Don Juan
Not going to lie, there have been times where I have seen a woman from behind and thought damnnn. She has the perfectly straightened hair with some sort of coloring or highlights, nice skinny body, usually has a nice butt accompanied by some tight jeans, and then she turns around and... I see the wrinkles and "matured" face and think WTF?!
My first thought is generally, her daughter picks her wardrobe or she mimics it. I really don't know what to think of these woman. They just strike me as woman who have long lived their "peak" era and never grew out of the attention wh0ring stage. I don't really understand why they dress this way, unless they are trying to seduce young men like myself, which I can honestly say, isn't working. But who knows what I'd do after a 12 pack. Haha.
-Scars
My first thought is generally, her daughter picks her wardrobe or she mimics it. I really don't know what to think of these woman. They just strike me as woman who have long lived their "peak" era and never grew out of the attention wh0ring stage. I don't really understand why they dress this way, unless they are trying to seduce young men like myself, which I can honestly say, isn't working. But who knows what I'd do after a 12 pack. Haha.
-Scars
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
There is a reason why older women shouldn't dress like they are in their 20's, they cannot compete with younger women and they shouldn't attempt to do so. If they do then they shouldn't be surprised if they are called cougars and are used for ONS.