"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Women who claim they are sweet people

SXS

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I girl I became friend with a little ago is quite funny. She is very short, about 140 cm, and talks in such a low voice that you can't hear her. Nothing impressive about her looks, but it's not ugly either. She is almost invisible to nearly everyone. She comes to class early, goes to the back of the class, sits there and talks to nobody the whole time. She is not the typical nerd, her grades aren't that good and she isn't that smart either. She is a little above 20 yo, and has 0 social life or skills, and I could swear she is a virgin.
She appears to be so sensitive, that you feel that you might hurt her just by saying something too near.
I am trying to set her up with another friend of mine, but I am afraid something might go wrong.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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SXS said:
I girl I became friend with a little ago is quite funny. She is very short, about 140 cm, and talks in such a low voice that you can't hear her. Nothing impressive about her looks, but it's not ugly either. She is almost invisible to nearly everyone. She comes to class early, goes to the back of the class, sits there and talks to nobody the whole time. She is not the typical nerd, her grades aren't that good and she isn't that smart either. She is a little above 20 yo, and has 0 social life or skills, and I could swear she is a virgin.
She appears to be so sensitive, that you feel that you might hurt her just by saying something too near.
I am trying to set her up with another friend of mine, but I am afraid something might go wrong.
She's probably the kind making 6 digits a year with a cheap webcam and hoping no one in class recognizes her :)
 

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She's probably the kind making 6 digits a year with a cheap webcam and hoping no one in class recognizes her
Well, you must pay for the class every month.
 

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It's amazing-I had a woman tell me my negative attitude toward women was affecting my dating. This from the woman who said" I think all men should have to have a vasectomy without anesthetic-to make up for the pain we go through during childbirth" What logical good can come from that? She thinks she's a paragon of virtuous women-reasonable,intelligent etc.

maybe the resident life coach/author could put that in her next book-under crazy ideas to get out of your head if you ever want to get a man. Start a thread and we'll fill it up for you.
 
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