"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Women who claim they are sweet people

SXS

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I girl I became friend with a little ago is quite funny. She is very short, about 140 cm, and talks in such a low voice that you can't hear her. Nothing impressive about her looks, but it's not ugly either. She is almost invisible to nearly everyone. She comes to class early, goes to the back of the class, sits there and talks to nobody the whole time. She is not the typical nerd, her grades aren't that good and she isn't that smart either. She is a little above 20 yo, and has 0 social life or skills, and I could swear she is a virgin.
She appears to be so sensitive, that you feel that you might hurt her just by saying something too near.
I am trying to set her up with another friend of mine, but I am afraid something might go wrong.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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SXS said:
I girl I became friend with a little ago is quite funny. She is very short, about 140 cm, and talks in such a low voice that you can't hear her. Nothing impressive about her looks, but it's not ugly either. She is almost invisible to nearly everyone. She comes to class early, goes to the back of the class, sits there and talks to nobody the whole time. She is not the typical nerd, her grades aren't that good and she isn't that smart either. She is a little above 20 yo, and has 0 social life or skills, and I could swear she is a virgin.
She appears to be so sensitive, that you feel that you might hurt her just by saying something too near.
I am trying to set her up with another friend of mine, but I am afraid something might go wrong.
She's probably the kind making 6 digits a year with a cheap webcam and hoping no one in class recognizes her :)
 

SXS

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She's probably the kind making 6 digits a year with a cheap webcam and hoping no one in class recognizes her
Well, you must pay for the class every month.
 

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It's amazing-I had a woman tell me my negative attitude toward women was affecting my dating. This from the woman who said" I think all men should have to have a vasectomy without anesthetic-to make up for the pain we go through during childbirth" What logical good can come from that? She thinks she's a paragon of virtuous women-reasonable,intelligent etc.

maybe the resident life coach/author could put that in her next book-under crazy ideas to get out of your head if you ever want to get a man. Start a thread and we'll fill it up for you.
 
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