"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Women who are interested in you WON'T CONFUSE YOU!

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All rise! Court is now in session. The honorable Judge nismo presiding. You may be seated.

Ok, this thread is exactly what it says on the tin unlike most w0manese you hear. It just needs to be said here. Think about it. If a woman is truly interested, will she give you mixed emotions? Hell no. Will she flake? Hell no. Will she make a way to see you and become available? Hell yeah!

When a woman says yes to a date and then suddenly loses her phone, falls ill (without a counter offer), falls asleep, etc. Guess what? Wait for it...Your princess is in another castle!

And if she wants to be friends first (lovers last, more likely never), play hard to get (never will get) or take it slow, go ghost on her. I don't have that kind of time to take it slow or be friends or chase a hard to get. I hope you don't believe in this friends first or take it slow or hard to get sh*t because they're all rejections and don't do men any good. If you get one, your game will only drag out the rejection. Counter intuitive.

To sum up: When a woman is totally into you, she'll throw out any standards, doubts, etc. to make that happen. She won't make you wait. She won't be shy. She will let you know that she wants to go to your castle. And why won't a woman confuse you? Easy, because she knows that if she does, she'll lose you to someone else and be broken. :(

For example, I saw a regular looking man (Think a computer nerd) talk to a girl today. She was giving him mixed emotions. She was having fun pulling his strings until he passed by her in a Lamborghini. The way the girl was screaming and crying was priceless! She then said "If only I made it known I was interested goddamnit!" :cry:

I've made my point and this solves your low-ass interest problem with women. :up:

Court is adjourned.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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nismo-4 said:
She was having fun pulling his strings until he passed by her in a Lamborghini.
I laughed. More seriously, true to the point. It's a good statement and needs to be said - and I need to remind myself of it, too.
 

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True, but often you don't have a woman who is 100% super duper interested from the start.
 

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Word. But interest declines as time goes on, and guys not experienced in dating dont realize whats going on. Or, if theyre infatuated. So it makes sense to ask in that regard. IE, they dont always start off being confused. But, nothing is ever concrete; feelings can change in an instant.

This is why you DONT have expectations, become infatuated, wear your heart on a sleeve, etc.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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OBJECTION HONORABLE JUDGE NISMO!

NOT ALL WOMEN ARE LIKE THAT! (NAWALT TM)

I BRING TO YOU ANECDOTAL EVIDENCE THAT PROVES OTHERWISE!

I KNOW A FRIEND OF A FRIEND's MOM's COUSIN WHO WAS NOTHING LIKE THAT.

I REST MY CASE!
 

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This is another rule that makes DJ's more rigid and amenable to be breaking easily.

Then you end up with guys who are total asshøles, walking around bars, insulting every girl in line, because after all,

if they were interested; they would start blowing him right in the middle of the bar, right?

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No. Initial attraction could be like static electricity; flaky, easy to lose, easy to spark, but real attraction takes time and effort, say like Direct Current.
(without a battery it won't flow)

If you breed more DJ's with this "she won't confuse you if she is into you, bullshít", you'll end up with women haters eventually, not DJ's.

And we have plenty of them already.
 
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