^^ I read something like this the other day. The article was saying that if a girl is being really flirty with you, she's probably not into you. Agree? Disagree?
I'm bringing this up because when I was RAFC it would trip me up when I'd be with a group and a girl was flirting back and forth with some other guy. I thought all was lost. I thought I needed to get to this "comfort zone" where I could have back-and-forth witty chit-chat with girls. Later though, I realized that I was in fact in the optimal position.
If she's a bit nervous around you, doesn't seem to know how to have a "comfortable" conversation with you, yet still shows other signs of interest, then you're in a good place. Think of it this way: some average guy can riff and joke around all day with platonic female friends... But when it comes to that stunning girl he's got a little bit of hesitation in his voice, he thinks so hard about what to say that nothing witty or well-timed comes out.
This is just a thought, not good for all cases. But I wanted to share this idea with you guys because when I read it I had a real "that is so true" moment. Agree? Disagree?
I'm bringing this up because when I was RAFC it would trip me up when I'd be with a group and a girl was flirting back and forth with some other guy. I thought all was lost. I thought I needed to get to this "comfort zone" where I could have back-and-forth witty chit-chat with girls. Later though, I realized that I was in fact in the optimal position.
If she's a bit nervous around you, doesn't seem to know how to have a "comfortable" conversation with you, yet still shows other signs of interest, then you're in a good place. Think of it this way: some average guy can riff and joke around all day with platonic female friends... But when it comes to that stunning girl he's got a little bit of hesitation in his voice, he thinks so hard about what to say that nothing witty or well-timed comes out.
This is just a thought, not good for all cases. But I wanted to share this idea with you guys because when I read it I had a real "that is so true" moment. Agree? Disagree?