"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Women were happier before, yet they still want more freedom. Why?

ImTheDoubleGreatest!

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Back a long time ago, I know that women were on average happier than they are today. They liked being housewives and having extremely simple responsibilites and the such. Yet nowadays they try to know more about working, going out, partying, and the such and eventually follow through with these. I remember reading the story of jophil28 and his girl being happy with him. She somehow met a feminist and she basically told her "no you aren't happy you just think you are" (isn't that the same ****ing thing??) and eventually destroyed their relationship. She was happy before and now she isn't because of stupid feminism. Now, statistically speaking, women aren't as happy as they once were when they were living sheltered lives. So then why do they follow feminism? They don't notice that they aren't as happy?

I'm sorry the question isn't really clear but I'm just wondering. They are basically destroying the society they are creating.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Women today are more miserable because they are more entitled. They think TV and movies are a good representation of reality.. and so they expect their lives to play out like these fictional characters they watch growing up.

When life does NOT play out that way.. they get angry and bitter. Pathetically.. modern men are EXACTLY the same. Chasing this fictional virgin princess all their lives instead of f*cking and chucking like they should. :crackup:
 

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Poon is right, Women are becoming more masculine everyday and its disgusting. You should really blame the media because they treat men like a bunch of needy validation seekers and women as rulers of the world. The thing is, most women don't get it that they NEED a man (not a boy) in their life but instead they go by what they "should" be doing.
 

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I say let them. Have the world tear them to shreds until they realize freedom is a burden.

Women who are dumb enough to follow media and it's illusions aren't worth my time. Media does nobody any good in times of peace, they treat men as needy validation seekers and women as sexual objects. Men don't want to be treated as needy, women don't want to be treated as objects. Both genders has to my knowledge a deep desire for love, but unrealistic expectations are ruining it for everyone. There's two sides to this problem, but rather than change the world we can change ourselves.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Women are growing more miserable and power-hungry exclusively in response to men growing more beta-ish.

The BETA MALE mentality is to blame for EVERYTHING. The situation females have is merely a symptom of it.
 
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