"Blank Mind on Dates? She's Dropping Hints You Keep Missing"

The plates get cleared and the silence lands like a brick. You can feel her waiting. Your brain offers up your commute, your job, the weather — topics that have ended more second dates than bad breath.

Here's what most guys never learn: women hand out free conversational material all night long. Tiny clues about what they actually want to discuss. Catch them and you never run out of things to say — because she's telling you what to say next.

Rule 4 of the "22 Rules" trains your ear to catch every single one.

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Women wasting time

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Far be it for me to ***** about women but that's not what I am about to get into. I am however fed up with how society is structured with women to act however women want to act with men they have no social connections with. I mean really...

Nothing annoys me more than that. Yes I am aware that my game can be off but sometimes the person, the man, is NOT the blame as to why he gets rejected or turned down or what not. (that hasn't happened to me any time lately), we can thank society and the way women are being conditioned if you know what I mean. I honestly think there should be a balance when it comes to behavior and things like that. And another thing that irritates me is that society has taught women not to care for themselves, "oh he should just love me for my inner beauty" even when she is butt ugly and because the narcissism is so deep that girls now days think she is being hit on. Seriously? I want to puke....

So with my intention of getting laid I realize most women are wasting my ****ing time....
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Far be it for me to ***** about women but that's not what I am about to get into. I am however fed up with how society is structured with women to act however women want to act with men they have no social connections with. I mean really...

Nothing annoys me more than that. Yes I am aware that my game can be off but sometimes the person, the man, is NOT the blame as to why he gets rejected or turned down or what not. (that hasn't happened to me any time lately), we can thank society and the way women are being conditioned if you know what I mean. I honestly think there should be a balance when it comes to behavior and things like that. And another thing that irritates me is that society has taught women not to care for themselves, "oh he should just love me for my inner beauty" even when she is butt ugly and because the narcissism is so deep that girls now days think she is being hit on. Seriously? I want to puke....

So with my intention of getting laid I realize most women are wasting my ****ing time....
You did know they elevate themselves off of using your time and attention? They do it consciously and subconsciously. Thus when a man positions himself so he will not interact unless a woman deems his attention as extremely valueable ( it means she wants to fvck him ) it's not a evil thing to do. What's evil is women stacking time and attention from guys to make herself feel more desireable and using that energy to go give it up to someone else.
 

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What's evil is women stacking time and attention from guys to make herself feel more desireable and using that energy to go give it up to someone else.
All women are evil then because they ALL do that.
 

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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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That's why they can't be mad if we refuse to be around them unless we are fvcking.
Good luck trying to get that logic over with them.lol
 

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I don't have to explain it. I simply won't be around unless she values my time more than most others ( she's spreading her legs ).
But then she will tell everyone you were a NiCe GuY tHaT oNlY wAnTeD sEx
 

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But then she will tell everyone you were a NiCe GuY tHaT oNlY wAnTeD sEx
I'm not a "nice guy". Yeah I do want sex, but it's none of their business. I know for a fact if a woman likes me enough the legs will spread, so there is nothing to figure out. The legs will spread early and will spread often, without much effort from my end. It will be what they really want to do.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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wow. I actually like most of the comments on this thread because it's true. I am open to constructive criticism at this point. All valid points.

Actually a writer I admire named Roosh spoke of all these things that are being mentioned in the forum.
 

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Far be it for me to ***** about women but that's not what I am about to get into. I am however fed up with how society is structured with women to act however women want to act with men they have no social connections with. I mean really...

Nothing annoys me more than that. Yes I am aware that my game can be off but sometimes the person, the man, is NOT the blame as to why he gets rejected or turned down or what not. (that hasn't happened to me any time lately), we can thank society and the way women are being conditioned if you know what I mean. I honestly think there should be a balance when it comes to behavior and things like that. And another thing that irritates me is that society has taught women not to care for themselves, "oh he should just love me for my inner beauty" even when she is butt ugly and because the narcissism is so deep that girls now days think she is being hit on. Seriously? I want to puke....

So with my intention of getting laid I realize most women are wasting my ****ing time....
that's awesome you haven't been rejected anytime recently. That's a confident, strong position to be in. Good reading that.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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The problem is not that they want to waste your time, but that you keep LETTING them do it. If you make a move quickly you'll know straight away which women are really into you and which are not.
But if you make a move too fast they’ll accuse you of “only wanting one thing”. Not that they’d ever accuse Chad of that, he gets sex right away and as often as he wants. But you, beta bux, you better wait on that sex (if it ever comes) and go slow and “get to know her” because she’s “tired of fvckbois”.
 

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But if you make a move too fast they’ll accuse you of “only wanting one thing”. Not that they’d ever accuse Chad of that, he gets sex right away and as often as he wants. But you, beta bux, you better wait on that sex (if it ever comes) and go slow and “get to know her” because she’s “tired of fvckbois”.
If a woman gives you that kind of attitude it just means that she's not really interested in you.
 
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