Women Want a Taller Partner

[jhonny9546]

Anecdotally, most women seem to prefer a man who is at least 10 cm (about 4 inches) taller than them.
When I asked why, about 90% of the time the answer was: "so I can wear heels."
So it seems one of the biggest concerns for many women is appearing taller than their partner when they wear high heels.

I've also noticed that in couples where the man and woman are about the same height, the woman usually avoids wearing heels altogether.

 

[SW15]

Height is a significant component of looks, the #1 factor in attraction & seduction.

I think the high heels factor you mention is a relevant consideration. Heels seem to be getting higher. Additionally, female abundance is at an all time high. Women have more options than ever before and can throw out merely good options to chase elite tier options.

 

[Hamurabimbi]

Height is a significant component of looks, the #1 factor in attraction & seduction.

Face is #1.

 

[Scaramouche]

Hi Jhonnie,
"most women seem to prefer a man who is at least 10 cm (about 4 inches) taller than them."Well good luck with that,If wishes were Horses Beggars would ride!

 

[plumber]

the heels thing is just a safe answer. the real reason is as you suspect she finds it sexy if he is tall. but doesn't want to tell that simple truth so goes with the heel thing.

 

[BillyPilgrim]

What if she's super short herself and this is the only time when she can feel tall?

Lolz

 

[Apone]

Why not wear height-boosting sneakers/shoes? Women fake their entire appearance with make up, boob jobs, lip fillers, botox, etc. If you're insecure about your height, the easiest thing to do is to find shoes that give you an extra 3 or 4 inches. When she eventually finds out, just say, "Women wear makeup. Men wear lifts. We're even."

 

[Hamurabimbi]

A lot of girls don’t wear heels anyway.
But. Get some insoles to gain 2”.

 

[BaronOfHair]

And most heterosexual men desire women with not only beautiful faces, but fantastic breasts, and heart shaped rear ends. The absence of at least one of the latter two didn't prevent gals like Mila Kunis and Olivia Wilde from becoming the object of many a man's affection, and height is similarly only as much of a deterrent for a man as he allows it to be

 

[jhonny9546]

only as much of a deterrent for a man as he allows it to be

Easier said than done.
From your "inner game" perspective, you do everything you can to understand it and boost your self-esteem. (Your control)
From an external perspective, you will always be bullied by others. (Out of control)

In the end, it matters how you feel, i.e., your inner game, but that's like saying if you dress badly, it'll be okay because people don't care about clothes.

 

[BaronOfHair]

Easier said than done.

Similar to shooting The President/any chief of state, really: It ain't necessarily easy, nonetheless John Wilkes Booth, Lee Harvey Oswald, that Hinckley guy, a Routh who ain't Superman, and whoever iced Olaf Palme all prove that this is highly achievable