In the US, at least, the signs that you amount to something cost money, guys. Learn to make big money first, get plenty of it stashed where nobody but you knows how to access it, or even that you have any, get a black belt, get fit, dress well, get a decent looking car, THEN worry about finding a gal. Believe me, they are all OVER the place, IF you have basic health, fitness, money and abilities. Especially if you are willing to travel to the 3rd world, you can take your pick of millions of lovely, smart young women. What's the rush? Are you so weak that you just can't STAND to be without some broad?
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
Women, want a man who amounts to something.
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
iwanttofight
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well said
3countriesPlan
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ya people are waking up that DJ skills only take you so far, what you really need to get over the hump is to be a true success. Hmm, maybe they'll open up some sort of investment, entrepreneurship subforum in here sometime in the future.
Marvin Gaye
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Me too. (lol)
JK I would love a woman who amounts to a full sweater and full jeans
JK I would love a woman who amounts to a full sweater and full jeans
This ties into the concept of appeasing, and living up to the standards of women, which completely contradicts what you said about not needing them. This underlying theme of trying to win women over is causing all these problems in the first place, and I can't understand why so many men do it.
Rather than do all these things for them - do them for YOU. Also, make sure THEY have something to offer. It's not all about them - stop making it that way. You're just encouraging their entitlement behavior.
You're really going to make lots of money to attract women, and give them what they want? What do you get out of it? Them? Nice trade-off. You spent all those years to make money for THEM...
The mindset you should have is, what do they have to offer to ME? Make sure they live up to YOUR standards. YOU are the prize. Don't waste all this time chasing after women... Flip the script.
The truth is, most women don't have anything to offer. So why would you possibly do this?
Rather than do all these things for them - do them for YOU. Also, make sure THEY have something to offer. It's not all about them - stop making it that way. You're just encouraging their entitlement behavior.
You're really going to make lots of money to attract women, and give them what they want? What do you get out of it? Them? Nice trade-off. You spent all those years to make money for THEM...
The mindset you should have is, what do they have to offer to ME? Make sure they live up to YOUR standards. YOU are the prize. Don't waste all this time chasing after women... Flip the script.
The truth is, most women don't have anything to offer. So why would you possibly do this?
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
I want a woman that is going to ammount to something. how about that? I'm talking about something besides a teacher, or a hair stylist, or a babysitter, or a manicurist, or a mekup artist, or any job she wouldn't be proud to have a man do. why should i go to med school and become a doctor and she go to school for a year to be a cosmotologist? i want a woman that brings something to the table of equal value other then what's between her legs.
iwanttofight
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Actually I take that back bro, when you have nothing and a women really loves you than this women loves you for you, not your money or your car or yacht. You dont want chicks that love your possessions. Dont show off your stupid possessions to attract chicks bro show yourself off
women haze
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Or how about let's throw all this materialistic Money bull**** out of the window..
and let's start valuing each other just for being?...I am sure that one day you will all be a success, but don't measure your success on the count of women and getting women. Do it for your own value....
and let's start valuing each other just for being?...I am sure that one day you will all be a success, but don't measure your success on the count of women and getting women. Do it for your own value....
sodbuster
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Actually, He's right. I have an ex,living with a guy,engaged,etc. WHENEVER he is unemployed/underemployed she comes over to me....
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Was hangin out with a teacher last may/june...Im a 3rd year dental student, an I sware I was loosing brain cells just listening to her talk about how hard her lesson plans are blah blah blah...You can complain when you have something other than which smiley face sticker you gotta give your kid to think about.Robert28 said:I want a woman that is going to ammount to something. how about that? I'm talking about something besides a teacher, or a hair stylist, or a babysitter, or a manicurist, or a mekup artist, or any job she wouldn't be proud to have a man do. why should i go to med school and become a doctor and she go to school for a year to be a cosmotologist? i want a woman that brings something to the table of equal value other then what's between her legs.
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Dude, being rich gets you laid, yes, but then you have women sleeping with you just for your money.
You had it right, women want a man who AMOUNTS to something. You can be the poorest bastard, but if you believe in your purpose and in your course, your woman will be happier with you than with any rich wussy.
You had it right, women want a man who AMOUNTS to something. You can be the poorest bastard, but if you believe in your purpose and in your course, your woman will be happier with you than with any rich wussy.
Ah. The Tony Montana theory. The theory that leads to lives of crime for the weak, the dumb, the poor and the outsider.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XJ7HZATMKBY
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XJ7HZATMKBY