In the US, at least, the signs that you amount to something cost money, guys. Learn to make big money first, get plenty of it stashed where nobody but you knows how to access it, or even that you have any, get a black belt, get fit, dress well, get a decent looking car, THEN worry about finding a gal. Believe me, they are all OVER the place, IF you have basic health, fitness, money and abilities. Especially if you are willing to travel to the 3rd world, you can take your pick of millions of lovely, smart young women. What's the rush? Are you so weak that you just can't STAND to be without some broad?
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Women, want a man who amounts to something.
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
iwanttofight
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well said
3countriesPlan
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ya people are waking up that DJ skills only take you so far, what you really need to get over the hump is to be a true success. Hmm, maybe they'll open up some sort of investment, entrepreneurship subforum in here sometime in the future.
Marvin Gaye
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Me too. (lol)
JK I would love a woman who amounts to a full sweater and full jeans
JK I would love a woman who amounts to a full sweater and full jeans
This ties into the concept of appeasing, and living up to the standards of women, which completely contradicts what you said about not needing them. This underlying theme of trying to win women over is causing all these problems in the first place, and I can't understand why so many men do it.
Rather than do all these things for them - do them for YOU. Also, make sure THEY have something to offer. It's not all about them - stop making it that way. You're just encouraging their entitlement behavior.
You're really going to make lots of money to attract women, and give them what they want? What do you get out of it? Them? Nice trade-off. You spent all those years to make money for THEM...
The mindset you should have is, what do they have to offer to ME? Make sure they live up to YOUR standards. YOU are the prize. Don't waste all this time chasing after women... Flip the script.
The truth is, most women don't have anything to offer. So why would you possibly do this?
Rather than do all these things for them - do them for YOU. Also, make sure THEY have something to offer. It's not all about them - stop making it that way. You're just encouraging their entitlement behavior.
You're really going to make lots of money to attract women, and give them what they want? What do you get out of it? Them? Nice trade-off. You spent all those years to make money for THEM...
The mindset you should have is, what do they have to offer to ME? Make sure they live up to YOUR standards. YOU are the prize. Don't waste all this time chasing after women... Flip the script.
The truth is, most women don't have anything to offer. So why would you possibly do this?
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
I want a woman that is going to ammount to something. how about that? I'm talking about something besides a teacher, or a hair stylist, or a babysitter, or a manicurist, or a mekup artist, or any job she wouldn't be proud to have a man do. why should i go to med school and become a doctor and she go to school for a year to be a cosmotologist? i want a woman that brings something to the table of equal value other then what's between her legs.
iwanttofight
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Actually I take that back bro, when you have nothing and a women really loves you than this women loves you for you, not your money or your car or yacht. You dont want chicks that love your possessions. Dont show off your stupid possessions to attract chicks bro show yourself off
women haze
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Or how about let's throw all this materialistic Money bull**** out of the window..
and let's start valuing each other just for being?...I am sure that one day you will all be a success, but don't measure your success on the count of women and getting women. Do it for your own value....
and let's start valuing each other just for being?...I am sure that one day you will all be a success, but don't measure your success on the count of women and getting women. Do it for your own value....
sodbuster
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Actually, He's right. I have an ex,living with a guy,engaged,etc. WHENEVER he is unemployed/underemployed she comes over to me....
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Was hangin out with a teacher last may/june...Im a 3rd year dental student, an I sware I was loosing brain cells just listening to her talk about how hard her lesson plans are blah blah blah...You can complain when you have something other than which smiley face sticker you gotta give your kid to think about.Robert28 said:I want a woman that is going to ammount to something. how about that? I'm talking about something besides a teacher, or a hair stylist, or a babysitter, or a manicurist, or a mekup artist, or any job she wouldn't be proud to have a man do. why should i go to med school and become a doctor and she go to school for a year to be a cosmotologist? i want a woman that brings something to the table of equal value other then what's between her legs.
EvilAgenda
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Dude, being rich gets you laid, yes, but then you have women sleeping with you just for your money.
You had it right, women want a man who AMOUNTS to something. You can be the poorest bastard, but if you believe in your purpose and in your course, your woman will be happier with you than with any rich wussy.
You had it right, women want a man who AMOUNTS to something. You can be the poorest bastard, but if you believe in your purpose and in your course, your woman will be happier with you than with any rich wussy.
Ah. The Tony Montana theory. The theory that leads to lives of crime for the weak, the dumb, the poor and the outsider.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XJ7HZATMKBY
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XJ7HZATMKBY