"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
thesnowman
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Her: "Hey, real men are supposed to hold the door for a woman. Didn't you know that?"
Me: "Aww princess you poor thing, lets find a place to sit so you can rest you've done A LOT of work today!!" (said in a very sarcastic tone)
OR
Me: "That door didn't used to be there! Times have really changed! (****y grin)"
aussiegoat55
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An AFC would have said, "Ok, sure, whatever you say."
However, I said, "Haha, you're such a waffler. You afraid to take me one to one? If you're friends want to come with us, they can, otherwise, I'm picking you up at 7:00. Be sure to email me your address."
Her reply was, "Wow. Well, I'm glad you're being assertive. yadda yadda yadda..."
Just be sure to relax, be unreactive, ignore them, give it back to 'em, call 'em on it, refuse to play games, refuse to tolerate manipulative behaviour. Be confident, cool, yet sometimes you'll need to be on your toes.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
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aussiegoat55
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So true. Manipulative behaviour and tests are on the verge of disrespect, and once you're disrespected, it's time to walk away.Amante Silvestre said:You don't "pass" tests. You punish them for it.
Every time a woman tests you, she should fall a notch down in your attraction for her. It's as simple as that. The more she tests you, the less atrractive she becomes. If she doesn't know when to stop, you blow her off completely.