"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
thesnowman
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Her: "Hey, real men are supposed to hold the door for a woman. Didn't you know that?"
Me: "Aww princess you poor thing, lets find a place to sit so you can rest you've done A LOT of work today!!" (said in a very sarcastic tone)
OR
Me: "That door didn't used to be there! Times have really changed! (****y grin)"
aussiegoat55
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An AFC would have said, "Ok, sure, whatever you say."
However, I said, "Haha, you're such a waffler. You afraid to take me one to one? If you're friends want to come with us, they can, otherwise, I'm picking you up at 7:00. Be sure to email me your address."
Her reply was, "Wow. Well, I'm glad you're being assertive. yadda yadda yadda..."
Just be sure to relax, be unreactive, ignore them, give it back to 'em, call 'em on it, refuse to play games, refuse to tolerate manipulative behaviour. Be confident, cool, yet sometimes you'll need to be on your toes.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
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aussiegoat55
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So true. Manipulative behaviour and tests are on the verge of disrespect, and once you're disrespected, it's time to walk away.Amante Silvestre said:You don't "pass" tests. You punish them for it.
Every time a woman tests you, she should fall a notch down in your attraction for her. It's as simple as that. The more she tests you, the less atrractive she becomes. If she doesn't know when to stop, you blow her off completely.