Women to Avoid and Reasons Why

[Masculinity]

Dating is fun, but it can also come with bad surprises. The focus of this thread is to share our experience with women who may have seemed great initially, but later turned out to be different to say the least. I'd like us to make a list of tips of women to avoid and the reasoning behind the decision. I'll start.

-Women with a history of childhood trauma: The girl who was neglected as a child. Even with all the therapy in the world, she will carry scars that will affect her self esteem, her self worth. This is the girl that will take any attention she can get.

-Women with tramp stamps - Unless you're seeing her to pump and dump, these women are trouble. These women fall in the category of pinching condoms and lying about being on birth control.

-Women with Daddy Issues: These are interesting. Women with a bad relationship with their fathers tend to project a lot of their frustrations and issues onto man they date--the research on this is great.

-Women with mostly male friends: a true time bomb. With all those orbiters around her, it's only a matter of time until she succumbs to one if her friend's sausages, if she hasn't already done it.

 

[El Payaso]

Women with golddigger tendencies.

 

[Who Dares Win]

Well thats basically 90% of modern women to have one of those...half of them have all them

 

[noBSgames]

Well thats basically 90% of modern women to have one of those...half of them have all them

That's true

 

[exhausted]

Entitled spoiled brat princess syndrome. If a girl tells you she was raised spoiled to get everything she wanted when she wanted she will expect you to do the same to her. When you dont she will punish you.
Of course we want to give those we love everything we can within reason. With a brat there is no reason.

Girl who smoked. Enough said.

Girl who did drugs for years. Not smoking weed from time to time, but relying on weed daily for a long time.

Any girl who tells you she suffers from depression and anxiety!

 

[lizardking82]

I say give girls a chance to show their true selves and listen to what they tell you about yourself. This way you don't need to wonder what they might have or might not, you listen and the rotten apples will show early on. They just can't help it. Until then, you escalate towards sex and if it doesn't happen, you move on.

 

[noBSgames]

It took almost two years for my ex to show her true self.. never again will I ever let a women get away with so much that my ex did.. any other guys would of ran loooong time ago.. you guys would of been like wtf.

 

[Von]

Every girl have this.... but which girl can control themselves is the key (be low or moderate... instead of ''extreme'')

It can take years before her ''personnality'' shows up (hence my issue with my current LTR and fundamental one) ...

I would add:

1. Girls with no ambition

2. Girls who are more intention TV shows than books (intellectual stuff)

3. Girls who don't listen to music

4. Girls without a passion

5. Girls who don't take care of their body

 

[Augustus_McCrae]

Single moms

Women who say they were abused by their ex.

Women who don’t have an overall positive attitude.

Overly sarcastic women

-Augustus-

 

[Andrewdiceclay]

Why isn't anyone talking about the OBSESSIVE COMPULSIVE LIARS who manipulate everything you say and every situation to work in their favor.

 

[djthiago1]

Any girl who tells you she suffers from depression and anxiety!

Could you please elaborate?

 

[exhausted]

Could you please elaborate?

Everyone in life will have to deal with stress and anxiety among every other emotion. This is normal.
When a woman, who is naturally eratic emotionally as women are, tells you she suffers with stress and anxiety what she means is she has a POOR ability to deal with issues big or small. She does not have the normal ability to deal with and go through life properly. Little things will become overly dramatic and cause her problems which cause you problems.
Life is hard and the older you get the harder it becomes. You start burying family and friends and you deal with the stress of a family and kids. This is normal. However for a girl who "suffers " with normal stresses of life everything is catapulted to chaotic dramatic levels.
In life you want a partner wo stand with in life, someone to lean on st times not to take care of like an emotional teenager.

Go read my threads many stories of my ex flipping out over the littlest thing and just ruining days and lives.

 

[exhausted]

Single moms

Women who say they were abused by their ex.

Women who don’t have an overall positive attitude.

Overly sarcastic women

-Augustus-

Negative women are a terror.
You come home from a hard day at work happy to see your woman and there she is corrupting the atmosphere with negativity and disgust. Ruining the vibe all night because her coworker made her mad and now she has to punish everyone for it

 

[Masculinity]

Women who are feminists: chances are you will constantly walk on eggshells and have your words over analyzed or taken out of context to shame you for being male.

Women covered in tattoos and/or piercings: it's difficult to verbalize why these women are bad for you, but in short, they usually come with a lot of baggage.

Women with hair colors that don't occur in nature: I made the mistake of giving a few of these women chances, during a dry spell or sex. They brought more headaches and drama than they brought sexual satisfaction.

Social Media VVhores: don't need to explain much here. According to psychological research, women with a history of child-abandonment or distress issues search in strangers for love and attention they lacked at home. You will be nothing other than an orbiter to her.

Women taking medications for severe mental illness(es): must I say anything else here? Make some cold approaches and improve your odds of dating a healthy woman. You deserve better.

 

[jaymbrs]

Single moms

I have to disagree with this one. Single moms tend to put out quicker since they feel they need to make up for the extra baggage they carry.

 

[Billtx49]

I have to disagree with this one. Single moms tend to put out quicker since they feel they need to make up for the extra baggage they carry.

Yep, they bang faster, but then you ultimately get in her love lineup below her kids.

 

[djthiago1]

Everyone in life will have to deal with stress and anxiety among every other emotion. This is normal.
When a woman, who is naturally eratic emotionally as women are, tells you she suffers with stress and anxiety what she means is she has a POOR ability to deal with issues big or small. She does not have the normal ability to deal with and go through life properly. Little things will become overly dramatic and cause her problems which cause you problems.
Life is hard and the older you get the harder it becomes. You start burying family and friends and you deal with the stress of a family and kids. This is normal. However for a girl who "suffers " with normal stresses of life everything is catapulted to chaotic dramatic levels.
In life you want a partner wo stand with in life, someone to lean on st times not to take care of like an emotional teenager.

Go read my threads many stories of my ex flipping out over the littlest thing and just ruining days and lives.

Accurate description of my ex. She said she had been depressed for over 3 years and had major anxiety, she even took medicine for it.

That's why i asked.

 

[exhausted]

Accurate description of my ex. She said she had been depressed for over 3 years and had major anxiety, she even took medicine for it.

That's why i asked.

Yep major red flag. It's one thing to go through a tragedy it's another to have chemical imbalances and have 3 years of depression with normal life.

 

[Augustus_McCrae]

I have to disagree with this one. Single moms tend to put out quicker since they feel they need to make up for the extra baggage they carry.

If you limit it to just sex and fun, maybe. However, sooner or later you still deal with cancelled plans due to no babysitter, calls from kids, etc.

-Augustus-

 

[RedScorpion]

Yep. Met a girl who was very much a 'Princess' type, major social media *****, wasn't raised with a father - she was keen on punishment by silent treatment, storming off, etc. if you didn't act the way she wanted you to. Massive headache.