"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Women tired of repeat emails

ThisNThat

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Lately, I am starting to see some women putting, "Not to be rude, if I don't feel an attraction, I waste time by responding to out of politeness saying I'm on interested...so if I don't respond, take the hint and stop emailing me when I don't answer the initial email."

I have to admit, I'm guilty of this, because women get so many emails, some get overlooked and I'll follow-up a few weeks later if they haven't answered, although, I'm not sure if that post was directed at me or not, because she had put "This is an update..." because before she had a very short list of likes/hobbies, and not much else.

So basically now women are admitting openly IN their profiles why they aren't responding, and "If I don't answer, I'm not interested, so stop emailing me!"

Of course, where I live there's a very finite amount of available people in the area, so I'm bound to bump into them again. lol
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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backseatjuan

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I seen your posts here N there, and wanted to tell you how much guilty you are of online. The most weird and ****ed up people I meet with, I met online. The weirdos that I did meet with responded to my first message and it was on, I never e-mailed back and forth, or ever gave a damn about what they write. Online is all about pictures. Damn, thinking back, every single ***** I met online I was out with the same day. Damn damn!

The best relationships I had with women I approach in real life.
 

dude99

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Lately, I am starting to see some women putting, "Not to be rude, if I don't feel an attraction, I waste time by responding to out of politeness saying I'm on interested...so if I don't respond, take the hint and stop emailing me when I don't answer the initial email."

I have to admit, I'm guilty of this, because women get so many emails, some get overlooked and I'll follow-up a few weeks later if they haven't answered, although, I'm not sure if that post was directed at me or not, because she had put "This is an update..." because before she had a very short list of likes/hobbies, and not much else.

So basically now women are admitting openly IN their profiles why they aren't responding, and "If I don't answer, I'm not interested, so stop emailing me!"

Of course, where I live there's a very finite amount of available people in the area, so I'm bound to bump into them again. lol
Hopefully every red blooded man on the dating site then will not email her. If she is going to be rude and not even have the decency to say thank but no thanks, she deserves then to have every guy read this and go " next"
 

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I seen your posts here N there, and wanted to tell you how much guilty you are of online.
I'm not sure I understand this. Seen my posts "here n there"? Guilty of what?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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El Payaso

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The average woman gets dozens of messages a day so it's no surprise. It's almost a second job now to manage their online dating accounts.
 

ThisNThat

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The average woman gets dozens of messages a day so it's no surprise. It's almost a second job now to manage their online dating accounts.
Yeah, sometimes I run into them on Facebook because they wind up knowing some of my friends, mutually. That's kind of a good angle to get in front of the line if you bypass the site and send them a message on FB. Hopefully they don't remember you messaged them through the dating site. Have to wait long enough to the point where she's forgotten about you first or get lost in the shuffle of her many inbox suitors. lol
 
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