Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Women tired of repeat emails

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Lately, I am starting to see some women putting, "Not to be rude, if I don't feel an attraction, I waste time by responding to out of politeness saying I'm on interested...so if I don't respond, take the hint and stop emailing me when I don't answer the initial email."

I have to admit, I'm guilty of this, because women get so many emails, some get overlooked and I'll follow-up a few weeks later if they haven't answered, although, I'm not sure if that post was directed at me or not, because she had put "This is an update..." because before she had a very short list of likes/hobbies, and not much else.

So basically now women are admitting openly IN their profiles why they aren't responding, and "If I don't answer, I'm not interested, so stop emailing me!"

Of course, where I live there's a very finite amount of available people in the area, so I'm bound to bump into them again. lol
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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backseatjuan

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I seen your posts here N there, and wanted to tell you how much guilty you are of online. The most weird and ****ed up people I meet with, I met online. The weirdos that I did meet with responded to my first message and it was on, I never e-mailed back and forth, or ever gave a damn about what they write. Online is all about pictures. Damn, thinking back, every single ***** I met online I was out with the same day. Damn damn!

The best relationships I had with women I approach in real life.
 

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Lately, I am starting to see some women putting, "Not to be rude, if I don't feel an attraction, I waste time by responding to out of politeness saying I'm on interested...so if I don't respond, take the hint and stop emailing me when I don't answer the initial email."

I have to admit, I'm guilty of this, because women get so many emails, some get overlooked and I'll follow-up a few weeks later if they haven't answered, although, I'm not sure if that post was directed at me or not, because she had put "This is an update..." because before she had a very short list of likes/hobbies, and not much else.

So basically now women are admitting openly IN their profiles why they aren't responding, and "If I don't answer, I'm not interested, so stop emailing me!"

Of course, where I live there's a very finite amount of available people in the area, so I'm bound to bump into them again. lol
Hopefully every red blooded man on the dating site then will not email her. If she is going to be rude and not even have the decency to say thank but no thanks, she deserves then to have every guy read this and go " next"
 

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I seen your posts here N there, and wanted to tell you how much guilty you are of online.
I'm not sure I understand this. Seen my posts "here n there"? Guilty of what?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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El Payaso

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The average woman gets dozens of messages a day so it's no surprise. It's almost a second job now to manage their online dating accounts.
 

ThisNThat

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The average woman gets dozens of messages a day so it's no surprise. It's almost a second job now to manage their online dating accounts.
Yeah, sometimes I run into them on Facebook because they wind up knowing some of my friends, mutually. That's kind of a good angle to get in front of the line if you bypass the site and send them a message on FB. Hopefully they don't remember you messaged them through the dating site. Have to wait long enough to the point where she's forgotten about you first or get lost in the shuffle of her many inbox suitors. lol
 
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