Women think men are "Time H*es"

[derby1]

Ive noticed with two new plates, (and past plates) we've taught women we are clowns,

If you message new plate at lets say 10am, "drinks at 8pm" shes basically conditioned herself she can message the man at 7.55pm and let him know, what she wants to do.

And he will pause Sleepless in Seattle, stop sucking his thumb and go meet his maiden instantly upon her command. or rage at her if she cancels

if you dare show value on your time, she will not be able to process this, you will be called a player or misogynist

she can get pregnant now and go back on dating apps with a bump,.

And men are also happy to take them and their newborn/toddler on, pushing some other mans kid around in a pushchair, absolutely disgusting!

this should all be classed as a mental illness for men

 

[Bigpapa]

This mainly happens when she is not wowed by you , or because she is crazy . Bust most of the times it is because she does not perceive as a guy who easily gets girls at her level or her perceived level

there are also girls who play games , but usually they will start chasing if you just disregard this kind of things and go radio silence

 

[derby1]

my point of this thread is they do it right off from the bat, their used to treating men this way

 

[BackInTheGame78]

my point of this thread is they do it right off from the bat, their used to treating men this way

Everyone else take note of what a jaded poster looks like.

 

[Robert28]

Because they know any simp will buy them food and drinks. That used to be a rare thing and they would get excited about it, now it’s just “meh” because they know they can get it anytime.

 

[Bigpapa]

Everyone else take note of what a jaded poster looks like.

it is always difficult to actually make a difference between a jaded guy and someone who is hustling , because we all have our moments when we are like “f8ck this sh1t”

for sure there is an attitude problem that women have , and mainly this is due to the excessive male thirst

women this days mainly live in their world and never really get a proper general feedback .

even ugly women have a lot of options

 

[derby1]

Everyone else take note of what a jaded poster looks like.

so because ive noticed a trend how women have no respect for a mans time, and think they can just let him know an hour before the event, Im jaded lol.....gtfoh

Im observing what the simp epidemic has caused

 

[bat soup]

so because ive noticed a trend how women have no respect for a mans time, and think they can just let him know an hour before the event, Im jaded lol.....gtfoh

Im observing what the simp epidemic has caused

If a biatch is not doing what you want her to do, throw her number in the trash.

 

[Bigpapa]

Yep. Pretty much the only power a man has is to withdraw his time and attention and Next her.

or to lower your standards and f8ck mainly 4s, 5s and occasionally 6s

but this option is a sad way of living

 

[Bigpapa]

Not to downplay how prevalent this kind of thing is, but it's pretty obvious which threads are from people relying on online dating. Of course they treat you poorly on there because that is an environment where it's impossible for them to respect you as just another name

dating channels ( online , cold approach , social , etc ) ls is just like investing your money is , never put all your eggs in one basket

 

[Bigpapa]

Ive noticed with two new plates, (and past plates) we've taught women we are clowns,

If you message new plate at lets say 10am, "drinks at 8pm" shes basically conditioned herself she can message the man at 7.55pm and let him know, what she wants to do.

And he will pause Sleepless in Seattle, stop sucking his thumb and go meet his maiden instantly upon her command. or rage at her if she cancels

if you dare show value on your time, she will not be able to process this, you will be called a player or misogynist

she can get pregnant now and go back on dating apps with a bump,.

And men are also happy to take them and their newborn/toddler on, pushing some other mans kid around in a pushchair, absolutely disgusting!

this should all be classed as a mental illness for men

this tik tok crap actually shows perfectly for what type of guys women usually go for

https://www.instagram.com/reel/CO3S7l7g91o/?utm_medium=copy_link

In this case it is mainly about that it is very difficult to find a quality guy that is willing to commit as the woman grows older , compared to when the woman was young and most guys were willing to commit

 

[2Rocky]

Women view time differently.

Us driven men consider it a Limited Resource. An allowance we are given each day to get the most out of. Something we all have regardless of our economic position.

Women view it as a limitless resource. They fritter it away. If she spends it to feel good, she values it just as much as if she used it to generate income or something of value. So when she wastes your time by being late she honestly doesn't see it as a problem because she doesn't value it as much as you do. Time spent sleeping in or perusing Social media is worth as much as the time budgeted for getting to work .

Now not ALL women have this mindset...But the majority do. It is why women will seem to stay with a guy who is not going anywhere in his life. They value the emotion generated from the time rather than the product of the time.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Women view time differently.

Us driven men consider it a Limited Resource. An allowance we are given each day to get the most out of. Something we all have regardless of our economic position.

Women view it as a limitless resource. They fritter it away. If she spends it to feel good, she values it just as much as if she used it to generate income or something of value. So when she wastes your time by being late she honestly doesn't see it as a problem because she doesn't value it as much as you do. Time spent sleeping in or perusing Social media is worth as much as the time budgeted for getting to work .

Now not ALL women have this mindset...But the majority do. It is why women will seem to stay with a guy who is not going anywhere in his life. They value the emotion generated from the time rather than the product of the time.

She can obtain the results of several mens time at any time. Thus she doesn't value their time. She knows that saves her time and energy to let the man do it, thus, it's why she manages it like that. If you differentiate yourself in that you won't let her waste your time, if she is interested enough, she will respect your time.

 

[Modern Man Advice]

Ive noticed with two new plates, (and past plates) we've taught women we are clowns,

If you message new plate at lets say 10am, "drinks at 8pm" shes basically conditioned herself she can message the man at 7.55pm and let him know, what she wants to do.

And he will pause Sleepless in Seattle, stop sucking his thumb and go meet his maiden instantly upon her command. or rage at her if she cancels

if you dare show value on your time, she will not be able to process this, you will be called a player or misogynist

she can get pregnant now and go back on dating apps with a bump,.

And men are also happy to take them and their newborn/toddler on, pushing some other mans kid around in a pushchair, absolutely disgusting!

this should all be classed as a mental illness for men

You sound a bit sour but I think we get your point. Set a strong frame from the get-go.

Modern Man Advice

 

[derby1]

You sound a bit sour but I think we get your point. Set a strong frame from the get-go.

Im dissappointed in men as a group, thats my bitterness. because then we have to deal with the aftermath.

have you called a woman out recently, and watched the onslaught of abuse you will get? paragraphs of DM's for a healthy criticism of her behaviour?

 

[derby1]

this tik tok crap actually shows perfectly for what type of guys women usually go for

https://www.instagram.com/reel/CO3S7l7g91o/?utm_medium=copy_link

she would be inundated with relationship offers from handsome men, yet shes being "messed about" who the hell is messing her about a rapper?

stop the world

 

[SW15]

Not to downplay how prevalent this kind of thing is, but it's pretty obvious which threads are from people relying on online dating. Of course they treat you poorly on there because that is an environment where it's impossible for them to respect you as just another name

If most of one's interactions are from the swipe apps, then they will experience the absolute worst behavior from women. Women treat men as poorly as they possibly can when there are no consequences for doing so. On swipe apps, in a metro area of 200,000+, women have tons of choices. Their social circles are not informed of their bad behaviors towards guys they interact with on swipe apps. She has a free pass to ghost, flake, and be as rude as she can.

The only time a woman might be well behaved on a swipe app is if she lives in a smaller town/city with a limited pool of options. Any mid-sized area or larger offers women too many prospects for her to give AF about her rude behavior.

Women treat men who cold approach her (either in non-bar settings or at bars) slightly better, but a man relying on in-person cold approach will still get treated like shiit. Once again, a woman's existing social circle isn't informed when she does this to cold approachers. However, because women get cold approached less frequently than the enormity of their swipe queues, they behave slightly better. The better behaviors will be in smaller towns/cities with limited pools. However, most smaller towns are poontang wastelands due to lacking options, so a good portion of singles migrate to large metro areas if they find themselves single after age 25.

The only way a man gets treated with dignity in forming romantic relationships is if he forms them primarily through his social circles. Women exhibit better behavior in these situations because there are social consequences if they exhibit bad behavior. With social circle interactions, even if it fizzles out after 2-3 dates, both sides leave the interaction without a sour taste in the mouths, which doesn't happen via swipe apps or cold approaching. Fewer men are able to get dates through social circles. The men I've observed do this best as men who live in the same area for the entirety of their childhoods and then stay in that same area as adults in their 20s/30s. Guys who experienced childhood moves or moved as adults are less likely to have social circles capable of producing enough volume of dates to find a relationship.

 

[Georgepithyou]

Their social circles are not informed of their bad behaviors towards guys they interact with on swipe apps. She has a free pass to ghost, flake, and be as rude as she can.

This does explain a lot actually. They can't do this to a guy in their social circle since the word would spread and she would be kicked out. We need to shame women for rude and disrespectful behaviour.

The better behaviors will be in smaller towns/cities with limited pools.

Yes small towns tend to be massive sausage fests, i got friends from country towns that had ratios of 7:1 Men to Women.

 

[SW15]

This does explain a lot actually. They can't do this to a guy in their social circle since the word would spread and she would be kicked out. We need to shame women for rude and disrespectful behaviour.

I don't see that happening. How is some guy mistreated by a woman on a swipe app or through a cold approach going to inform that woman's friends of what she did? Also, even if he did, her friends wouldn't believe the accusations of some random guy. She has a free pass to behave in whatever way she wants and often men will see her worst behavior.

Yes small towns tend to be massive sausage fests, i got friends from country towns that had ratios of 7:1 Men to Women.

In the U.S., the smaller towns (less than 100,000 people) are mostly established couples with kids, empty nesters with kids 18+, and retirees. There are not many singles between 18-39 in these types of places. Many of the singles in these areas are 20s/30s people living with their parents because they are having issues finding jobs paying enough to be independent. A lot of the Millennials who graduated into the Great Recession in the late 2000s/early 2010s lived at home for a time. Since 2000, it has been common for new high school and new college graduates to live with the parents for some amount of time after graduation. Boomer and early X'er parents have had to deal with children living at home as adults at high rates in the last 20 years, something that they were not expecting.

While women in their 20s/30s pay no SMV consequences for living with their parents as adults, it is dating suicide for men to do the same thing.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

You sound a bit sour but I think we get your point. Set a strong frame from the get-go.

Modern Man Advice

Yeah the sour, cynical ******* type attitude creates self fulfilling prophecies.