“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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No these are not HB10's - these are anywhere from HB6 to HB8 that are quite aggressive in the approach for a date once you've exchanged numbers.

The forceful nature kind of makes me take a step back and they make you feel guilty for not fully committing saying this like "are you trying to cancel" when I try to push the date back a couple of days.

I think these girls are desperate as f.

I was meant to meet a girl today after work then she msg's me in the morning she is now working to 7pm (usually finished around 4pm as she's a teacher) so I was like OK well I'll be done way earlier than that.

Now she's messaging asking to meet at 7:30pm, and even though she said she was not available until next week after this, she's now asking if I want to meet tomorrow instead.

I have Friday off work and I sense this girl is DTF so I'm going ahead with the date, how should I treat desperate women, how do you maximise the lay potential, I basically want a first date bang from this as she is being so thirsty and shes about a 6.5/7 and below me in looks (and she knows it).
 

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Man or woman, pushy people are pushy people. Put yourself in their shoes and you can understand why they are the way they are.

People who are interested make it easy for you. People who are really interested will pose no problems. People who are desperate will make it so easy, there's probably a massive catch waiting for you somewhere down the line.
 

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Okay.... why would anyone be on an online DATING site if they did not want to go out on dates? You are complaining that chicks what to go out with you..... I am puzzled.

If you are wondering how to treat pushy chicks... just fvck them... this isn't rocket science. Chicks chasing you and wanting to spend time with you is not a problem.
 

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Okay.... why would anyone be on an online DATING site if they did not want to go out on dates? You are complaining that chicks what to go out with you..... I am puzzled.

If you are wondering how to treat pushy chicks... just fvck them... this isn't rocket science. Chicks chasing you and wanting to spend time with you is not a problem.
Boredom, I think I get panicky when there’s too much on my plate - hence why I find it difficult to spin multiple plates.

Anyway I video called the girl tonight and we going on a date tomorrow near her house and defo gonna try to bang I’ll post results, good bad and ugly here tomorrow.
 

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Word of advice, I don't like flakes and i don't like pushy. I like the in-between comfortable chat, comfortable arrangements all goes to plan

Couple of recent dates were pushy and once i banged them they ticked the check list of every APD BPD CPD....ZPD disorder going

One dropped me 30 pound of cigars off as a gift after our date

Then cause i took 45 minutes to reply to one message you start getting "WHO ARE YOU WITH" txts (take in mind we had dated no more than twice)

They paint you from black to white in the blink of an eye, there's no leeway grey
 
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Boredom, I think I get panicky when there’s too much on my plate - hence why I find it difficult to spin multiple plates.
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Okay... I get that. Well... I do struggle with this as well. I really would like to just settle into 2 or 3 chicks that I can just put on a rotation... and just relax. The problem is that chicks just don't work like this. I just keep doing what I do and it works out that I always have 2-5 chicks I'm seeing. They drift in and out... they'll find dudes that want to commit... then they get bored and come back... Many think this is GREAT... but the truth is it does get tiring. This is just how I am.. if I tried to scale things back I would just fail because I would not be authentic.
 

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No these are not HB10's - these are anywhere from HB6 to HB8 that are quite aggressive in the approach for a date once you've exchanged numbers.

The forceful nature kind of makes me take a step back and they make you feel guilty for not fully committing saying this like "are you trying to cancel" when I try to push the date back a couple of days.

I think these girls are desperate as f.
Man: Are you available for date Saturday 7:30 pm?
Woman: Sure
Man: (next day). Can we push it back a few days?
Woman: Are you trying to cancel?
Man: Whoa take it easy! Just because I logged onto an online dating site, said hello, got your name, got your number, set up a time and place for a date and you agreed, doesn’t mean I’m serious. I’m just bored and want to see how desperate you are.

o_O

I was meant to meet a girl today after work then she msg's me in the morning she is now working to 7pm (usually finished around 4pm as she's a teacher) so I was like OK well I'll be done way earlier than that.

Now she's messaging asking to meet at 7:30pm, and even though she said she was not available until next week after this, she's now asking if I want to meet tomorrow instead.

I have Friday off work and I sense this girl is DTF so I'm going ahead with the date, how should I treat desperate women, how do you maximise the lay potential, I basically want a first date bang from this as she is being so thirsty and shes about a 6.5/7 and below me in looks (and she knows it).
Whoa bro. Nothing wrong with your ego.

If she knows you are WAY more good looking than she will ever be, and she is desperate and thirsty to f your brians out as soon as she sees you, you don’t need our help.
 

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If she knows you are WAY more good looking than she will ever be, and she is desperate and thirsty to f your brians out as soon
this is 100% true i have a plain jane at mo,
ive ruined her life all night in bed
she is popular in her huge female social circle and told them all

this then makes even more attractive women want a piece, amazing how it works
 

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What does it mean?

No these are not HB10's - these are anywhere from HB6 to HB8 that are quite aggressive in the approach for a date once you've exchanged numbers.

The forceful nature kind of makes me take a step back and they make you feel guilty for not fully committing saying this like "are you trying to cancel" when I try to push the date back a couple of days.

I think these girls are desperate as f.

I was meant to meet a girl today after work then she msg's me in the morning she is now working to 7pm (usually finished around 4pm as she's a teacher) so I was like OK well I'll be done way earlier than that.

Now she's messaging asking to meet at 7:30pm, and even though she said she was not available until next week after this, she's now asking if I want to meet tomorrow instead.

I have Friday off work and I sense this girl is DTF so I'm going ahead with the date, how should I treat desperate women, how do you maximise the lay potential, I basically want a first date bang from this as she is being so thirsty and shes about a 6.5/7 and below me in looks (and she knows it).
i love the confidence in these threads :D im never 100% confident on dates regardless of the fact that I was on milion of them :D
 

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Looool knew she was a wrongun.

She kept displaying weird socially awkward tendencies which I called her out for. Highly intelligent and witty but rude in a try hard funny way. Combatted and gave back, she didn’t like, escalated but she was unresponsive, but escalated on her own terms. Put her head on my shoulder as she was cold, moved her head to my neck it was like she was gaming me, I grabbed some thigh, she told me I made her feel sick as I wasn’t attractive... then boom lent in to kiss me, I kissed her, pulled back, then she lent in for more. We grabbed a bite to eat at the bar, more kissing after, she revealed she has anxiety and ibs due to a trip to Nepal and contracting a parasite (tmi - while thing made no sense and was frankly weird).

Kept checking her phone which I also called her out on, this ***** was lucky to have me in her presence ol Disney hunchback of notre dame looking mother ducker. I made her buy another 2 Gins, she left them inside and said she was going home and wanted bed. I went inside and downed both drinks, came out she’s kissing me but suggested I go home as she has work at 5am and needs to mark school work (teacher - I have the day off), at this point I don’t even mind leaving, the kiss didn’t get me hard (usually does) and she wasn’t attractive enough to arouse me so I thought I’m not gonna put up a fight on this one. I feel more offended this HB6 had the audacity.

Anyway a poor night, didn’t realise she would be worse than pictures and video, and mega weird/mental health. Still mad at myself for not ****ing her bur really what would that prove.
 

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She's DTF
 
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