"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Women that hardly get back to you

tryst type

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Ok, I know the consensus is to keep plate spinning but sometimes I'll hit a phase where women just do not get back to me ie reply to texts, return phone calls or just say they're too busy right now.

These days I'm more quick to just delete a number rather than try again a few days later. I'm noticing though that my contacts are slowly diminishing and the ones who keep coming back for more are the ones I really don't care to see again but I keep around anyway.

Anyone else experience this and have any good tips?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Zunder

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Pretty obvious - they have low interest.
 

tryst type

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Zunder said:
Pretty obvious - they have low interest.
Yeah I guess you're right.

I've been not putting any effort in lately. I'm kind of at the point of not caring how to lead an interaction. More so just going for the "hang out"
 

Scaramouche

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Dear TrystType,
Well you start at the top and work down till you find your Milieu,women that are attracted to you.....then however much you dislike it that is your reality...If you feel you can do better than see them as plates and keep trying!
 

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Scaramouche said:
Dear TrystType,
Well you start at the top and work down till you find your Milieu,women that are attracted to you.....then however much you dislike it that is your reality...If you feel you can do better than see them as plates and keep trying!
Yeah lately it's always the women I'm not that interested in that show the most attraction. And I treat them all the same way, as in I'm not over pursuing the ones I'd like to see more.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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