"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Women that hardly get back to you

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Ok, I know the consensus is to keep plate spinning but sometimes I'll hit a phase where women just do not get back to me ie reply to texts, return phone calls or just say they're too busy right now.

These days I'm more quick to just delete a number rather than try again a few days later. I'm noticing though that my contacts are slowly diminishing and the ones who keep coming back for more are the ones I really don't care to see again but I keep around anyway.

Anyone else experience this and have any good tips?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Pretty obvious - they have low interest.
 
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Zunder said:
Pretty obvious - they have low interest.
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Yeah I guess you're right.

I've been not putting any effort in lately. I'm kind of at the point of not caring how to lead an interaction. More so just going for the "hang out"
 
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Dear TrystType,
Well you start at the top and work down till you find your Milieu,women that are attracted to you.....then however much you dislike it that is your reality...If you feel you can do better than see them as plates and keep trying!
 
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Scaramouche said:
Dear TrystType,
Well you start at the top and work down till you find your Milieu,women that are attracted to you.....then however much you dislike it that is your reality...If you feel you can do better than see them as plates and keep trying!
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Yeah lately it's always the women I'm not that interested in that show the most attraction. And I treat them all the same way, as in I'm not over pursuing the ones I'd like to see more.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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