"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Women that hardly get back to you

tryst type

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Ok, I know the consensus is to keep plate spinning but sometimes I'll hit a phase where women just do not get back to me ie reply to texts, return phone calls or just say they're too busy right now.

These days I'm more quick to just delete a number rather than try again a few days later. I'm noticing though that my contacts are slowly diminishing and the ones who keep coming back for more are the ones I really don't care to see again but I keep around anyway.

Anyone else experience this and have any good tips?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Zunder

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Pretty obvious - they have low interest.
 

tryst type

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Zunder said:
Pretty obvious - they have low interest.
Yeah I guess you're right.

I've been not putting any effort in lately. I'm kind of at the point of not caring how to lead an interaction. More so just going for the "hang out"
 

Scaramouche

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Dear TrystType,
Well you start at the top and work down till you find your Milieu,women that are attracted to you.....then however much you dislike it that is your reality...If you feel you can do better than see them as plates and keep trying!
 

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Scaramouche said:
Dear TrystType,
Well you start at the top and work down till you find your Milieu,women that are attracted to you.....then however much you dislike it that is your reality...If you feel you can do better than see them as plates and keep trying!
Yeah lately it's always the women I'm not that interested in that show the most attraction. And I treat them all the same way, as in I'm not over pursuing the ones I'd like to see more.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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