"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Women that dont like Confidence.

moonman53376

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hey, this site is great and theres some great advice here but has anyone ever come across that type of girl who just isnt attracted by all the traits of a DJ?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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DJ_Dork

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FIrst of all ask yourself.. What is a DJ. Is he a PLAYER? Nah fool, he is a chump just like me and you who had to LEARN to become the quinessential "man." He's better than your jerk friends who get to bang girls. He betters himself for himself and if he gets a girl, he can handle her and "gets it."

Now there are some girls that do not like DJs... but they're usually the ugliest, fattest, most messed up mentally in their head kind. Do you want those she-beasts? Phuck No!
 
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Women seek traits of a man in a man - not a DJ!! The question is -are you in sync with your masculinity?

Do you know what masculinity is, or are you following the effeminates of your generation and their definition of what a man is or should be??

You have two threads with the same name!!:rolleyes:
 

NatureGuy

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Most women like confident men, but not rude, swearing, foul-mouthed macho crudes. That's not a 'DJ', at least if you want to be effective.
 
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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