"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Women that dont like Confidence.

moonman53376

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hey, this site is great and theres some great advice here but has anyone ever come across that type of girl who just isnt attracted by all the traits of a DJ?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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DJ_Dork

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FIrst of all ask yourself.. What is a DJ. Is he a PLAYER? Nah fool, he is a chump just like me and you who had to LEARN to become the quinessential "man." He's better than your jerk friends who get to bang girls. He betters himself for himself and if he gets a girl, he can handle her and "gets it."

Now there are some girls that do not like DJs... but they're usually the ugliest, fattest, most messed up mentally in their head kind. Do you want those she-beasts? Phuck No!
 
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Women seek traits of a man in a man - not a DJ!! The question is -are you in sync with your masculinity?

Do you know what masculinity is, or are you following the effeminates of your generation and their definition of what a man is or should be??

You have two threads with the same name!!:rolleyes:
 

NatureGuy

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Most women like confident men, but not rude, swearing, foul-mouthed macho crudes. That's not a 'DJ', at least if you want to be effective.
 
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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