"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Women that dont like Confidence.

moonman53376

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hey, this site is great and theres some great advice here but has anyone ever come across that type of girl who just isnt attracted by all the traits of a DJ?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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DJ_Dork

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FIrst of all ask yourself.. What is a DJ. Is he a PLAYER? Nah fool, he is a chump just like me and you who had to LEARN to become the quinessential "man." He's better than your jerk friends who get to bang girls. He betters himself for himself and if he gets a girl, he can handle her and "gets it."

Now there are some girls that do not like DJs... but they're usually the ugliest, fattest, most messed up mentally in their head kind. Do you want those she-beasts? Phuck No!
 
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Women seek traits of a man in a man - not a DJ!! The question is -are you in sync with your masculinity?

Do you know what masculinity is, or are you following the effeminates of your generation and their definition of what a man is or should be??

You have two threads with the same name!!:rolleyes:
 

NatureGuy

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Most women like confident men, but not rude, swearing, foul-mouthed macho crudes. That's not a 'DJ', at least if you want to be effective.
 
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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