I have been getting a lot better about approaching women since I have started reading on this forum but I have a question, how do you guys respond to women that are just flat out stuck on themselves and think there you know what don't stink?
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Women that are stick on themselves?
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Da Realist
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Just walk.
I either keep them around if there is some benefit (such as helping me get pu$$y) or don't give them the time of day.
Too many guys are stuck on these black and white views of how to deal with women.
When it comes down to it, it doesn't matter what you do as long as you don't allow a woman to disrespect you, and YOU get something out of the deal. All of the problems come in when the situation is one sided in favor of the woman.
Too many guys are stuck on these black and white views of how to deal with women.
When it comes down to it, it doesn't matter what you do as long as you don't allow a woman to disrespect you, and YOU get something out of the deal. All of the problems come in when the situation is one sided in favor of the woman.
Mike32ct
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Ignore them and move on. I don't care how hot she is, with an attitude like that, she isn't worth it.
Some guys might suggest using some wise comeback line or a neg on her. Don't waste your time with that for two reasons:
1. She is who she is. She's isn't going to change because one guy called her out on her b.s. Besides, if you have to keep putting her in her place, what kind of relationship is that? Even if you just want sex, is it worth the drama?
2. She's probably a drama queen that would love to start a conflict, e.g. totally "overreact" to your comment and send her big friend Bruno after you. The hot (or think they're hot) prissy types are notorious for that.
Find women who are actually cool and receptive to you. Granted, this is difficult in America, but not impossible.
Some guys might suggest using some wise comeback line or a neg on her. Don't waste your time with that for two reasons:
1. She is who she is. She's isn't going to change because one guy called her out on her b.s. Besides, if you have to keep putting her in her place, what kind of relationship is that? Even if you just want sex, is it worth the drama?
2. She's probably a drama queen that would love to start a conflict, e.g. totally "overreact" to your comment and send her big friend Bruno after you. The hot (or think they're hot) prissy types are notorious for that.
Find women who are actually cool and receptive to you. Granted, this is difficult in America, but not impossible.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
thechallenger
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I agree Danger
you must always be getting somthing out of the event
or be seeming to in her eyes
it will verify your superiority to her inferiority
and if she has nothing to offer you tell her thats why your packing your stuff!
you must always be getting somthing out of the event
or be seeming to in her eyes
it will verify your superiority to her inferiority
and if she has nothing to offer you tell her thats why your packing your stuff!
I first ask myself: "Why do I want to bother with that?" Just like I'd ask myself about these things:
"What's the best way to stick my hand inside a hornet's nest?"
"What's the best way for me to piss off a grizzly bear?"
"How long can I keep my hair on fire?"
"How much pain can I withstand from a shark attack?"
"Can I stop an 18 wheeler on the highway with just my head?"
taiyuu_otoko
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When I'm at the supermarket, and I want to buy an apple, and I reach in and pull one out, and it has a worm hanging out of it, what do you think I should do? Use it to help me get more apples? Chew around the worm? Carry it around the store? Run home and post on some internet forum about how all the apples in the world are ruined? (Goddamned Attention ***** Apples) Post some article from menarebetterthanapples.com?
Or should I just put it back (maybe wash my hands to get the worm crap off me) and get another one? Since, there are you, you know, many many stores that sell apples and many many different kinds of apples to choose from. (red ones, green ones, ones with wierd names, cheap ones, expensive ones etc etc)
Or should I just put it back (maybe wash my hands to get the worm crap off me) and get another one? Since, there are you, you know, many many stores that sell apples and many many different kinds of apples to choose from. (red ones, green ones, ones with wierd names, cheap ones, expensive ones etc etc)
Deadly_Assassin
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hahahha, nice one taiyuu otoko. Next time I have second thoughts about approaching a chick, I will remember ur apple post.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
guywhoneedshelp
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Sarcastically say things like "Oh my if only I was worthy for such a perfect angle from heaven" haha I wonder how she would react. Be like "People should have to pay you to hang out with you! I wonder how much you cost!" haha I dunno man good luck with this stuck up b!tch
Good points everyone. It is best to walk away and it won't matter what I say. These kind of women will always be that way but there are times that I think they need to hear what a stuck up ***ch they are. They don't have to like me or give a damn about what I got to say but they got some serious issues if they won't even have the respect to say hi. I know how to take a hint that your not interested or the conversation is not there but seriously... Thanks for the input guys.