I have been getting a lot better about approaching women since I have started reading on this forum but I have a question, how do you guys respond to women that are just flat out stuck on themselves and think there you know what don't stink?
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Women that are stick on themselves?
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Da Realist
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Just walk.
I either keep them around if there is some benefit (such as helping me get pu$$y) or don't give them the time of day.
Too many guys are stuck on these black and white views of how to deal with women.
When it comes down to it, it doesn't matter what you do as long as you don't allow a woman to disrespect you, and YOU get something out of the deal. All of the problems come in when the situation is one sided in favor of the woman.
Too many guys are stuck on these black and white views of how to deal with women.
When it comes down to it, it doesn't matter what you do as long as you don't allow a woman to disrespect you, and YOU get something out of the deal. All of the problems come in when the situation is one sided in favor of the woman.
Mike32ct
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Ignore them and move on. I don't care how hot she is, with an attitude like that, she isn't worth it.
Some guys might suggest using some wise comeback line or a neg on her. Don't waste your time with that for two reasons:
1. She is who she is. She's isn't going to change because one guy called her out on her b.s. Besides, if you have to keep putting her in her place, what kind of relationship is that? Even if you just want sex, is it worth the drama?
2. She's probably a drama queen that would love to start a conflict, e.g. totally "overreact" to your comment and send her big friend Bruno after you. The hot (or think they're hot) prissy types are notorious for that.
Find women who are actually cool and receptive to you. Granted, this is difficult in America, but not impossible.
Some guys might suggest using some wise comeback line or a neg on her. Don't waste your time with that for two reasons:
1. She is who she is. She's isn't going to change because one guy called her out on her b.s. Besides, if you have to keep putting her in her place, what kind of relationship is that? Even if you just want sex, is it worth the drama?
2. She's probably a drama queen that would love to start a conflict, e.g. totally "overreact" to your comment and send her big friend Bruno after you. The hot (or think they're hot) prissy types are notorious for that.
Find women who are actually cool and receptive to you. Granted, this is difficult in America, but not impossible.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
thechallenger
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I agree Danger
you must always be getting somthing out of the event
or be seeming to in her eyes
it will verify your superiority to her inferiority
and if she has nothing to offer you tell her thats why your packing your stuff!
you must always be getting somthing out of the event
or be seeming to in her eyes
it will verify your superiority to her inferiority
and if she has nothing to offer you tell her thats why your packing your stuff!
I first ask myself: "Why do I want to bother with that?" Just like I'd ask myself about these things:
"What's the best way to stick my hand inside a hornet's nest?"
"What's the best way for me to piss off a grizzly bear?"
"How long can I keep my hair on fire?"
"How much pain can I withstand from a shark attack?"
"Can I stop an 18 wheeler on the highway with just my head?"
taiyuu_otoko
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When I'm at the supermarket, and I want to buy an apple, and I reach in and pull one out, and it has a worm hanging out of it, what do you think I should do? Use it to help me get more apples? Chew around the worm? Carry it around the store? Run home and post on some internet forum about how all the apples in the world are ruined? (Goddamned Attention ***** Apples) Post some article from menarebetterthanapples.com?
Or should I just put it back (maybe wash my hands to get the worm crap off me) and get another one? Since, there are you, you know, many many stores that sell apples and many many different kinds of apples to choose from. (red ones, green ones, ones with wierd names, cheap ones, expensive ones etc etc)
Or should I just put it back (maybe wash my hands to get the worm crap off me) and get another one? Since, there are you, you know, many many stores that sell apples and many many different kinds of apples to choose from. (red ones, green ones, ones with wierd names, cheap ones, expensive ones etc etc)
Deadly_Assassin
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hahahha, nice one taiyuu otoko. Next time I have second thoughts about approaching a chick, I will remember ur apple post.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
guywhoneedshelp
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Sarcastically say things like "Oh my if only I was worthy for such a perfect angle from heaven" haha I wonder how she would react. Be like "People should have to pay you to hang out with you! I wonder how much you cost!" haha I dunno man good luck with this stuck up b!tch
Good points everyone. It is best to walk away and it won't matter what I say. These kind of women will always be that way but there are times that I think they need to hear what a stuck up ***ch they are. They don't have to like me or give a damn about what I got to say but they got some serious issues if they won't even have the respect to say hi. I know how to take a hint that your not interested or the conversation is not there but seriously... Thanks for the input guys.