Women test you to see the REAL YOU

[verysuave]

so, what is this "REAL YOU" you guys claim? lets clarify this with examples

some guys here, are use the basic rules when it comes to dating/dealing with women and women test them to see the "REAL THEM"

 

[EFFORT]

i'm a bit confused with what your asking here?

 

[slaog]

Yes women do test you to see the real you. Actions speak louder than words.

Effort, basically women want to see you're real personality and not believe everything you tell them. They want to see are you acting or really genuine.

For instance you might come across as being a bad boy so women need to find out if you're the real deal of some AFC putting on a show. They'll say things to test you and see if you really need the women and how you react when things go wrong or for instance when they threaten to leave. Also when they behave badly they're seeing how you respond.

 

[verysuave]

Yes women do test you to see the real you. Actions speak louder than words.

Effort, basically women want to see you're real personality and not believe everything you tell them. They want to see are you acting or really genuine.

For instance you might come across as being a bad boy so women need to find out if you're the real deal of some AFC putting on a show. They'll say things to test you and see if you really need the women and how you react when things go wrong or for instance when they threaten to leave. Also when they behave badly they're seeing how you respond.

in your personal experience, give accurate example.. im not sure if you failed a test like this before or past in the past but, yeah give example. tnx

 

[EFFORT]

Just put in the work to make yourself the real deal then you won't even need to be worried about "tests".

 

[I.A.F.Y.B.]

It just means be yourself. I'm not saying be your AFC self. But, your best self and who you are. If you put on a front and say your this and that just to impress her. She will find out later your not like that. Only if your being fake.

 

[619joe]

WTF was that? (effort)

Bud your post doesnt help anyone on this forum nor does it clarify ANYTHING....None of you guys who posted gave examples just gave some theory mind B.S but in actuality it doesnt help for jack ****.

FOR EXAMPLE (maybe not the greatest but better than whatever plugs posted anything up top)

Lets say you game a girl really well and she asks if your a pickup artist.She is testing you because she knows you will either say YES or NO and somehow you will end up looking like a dumbass with either of those responses.

Better to tell her something like "What gives you that impression?Im here to have fun and relax with friends and meet whoever I meet".

I hope you get the picture because I just made that up in 2 secs just to give u some idea

 

[wjh]

Lets say you game a girl really well and she asks if your a pickup artist.

I've been with many girls and have approached infinitely more.

Not once have I ever been asked if I was a pick-up artist. I'm not so sure your opinion is very credible.

Part of my problem with you is that you're actively discrediting the experiences of others when you undoubtedly weren't living their lives and thus can't judge them for it. You weren't there.

Let your opinion, and not your judgments of other people, speak for itself.

I for one believe women test you to touch your "core" strength. They feel it and relish in the fact that they're with you (a strong man). OR, conversely, they test you and then find out how weak and pathetic you are and thus are disgusted with you.

Be the strong man, and don't let anyone push you over. Male, female, mom or dad.

 

[slaog]

in your personal experience, give accurate example.. im not sure if you failed a test like this before or past in the past but, yeah give example. tnx

There are many ways they test you. Basically they'll say something that they know you don't want to hear and see how you will react. Do you get upset, lose your cool, beg for forgiveness etc or are you above all that.

I'll give you an example of what happened me late saturday night when I passed one of these tests.

I went on a date and it went bad. It was about my 6th time dating this girl and we get on great but I wasn't in good form saturday and was feeling very tired so I didn't say much. Then near the end the atmosphere wasn't great at all.

We both went home and later I spotted her on msn. She said I was terrible and I said I was too and I realised that after I left her. She then said that she realised she didn't want to see me no more. I said ok and said if 2 people are not making each other happy theres no point meeting. Before in my really AFC days I would have practically begged her to meet with me again and fail the test.

Anyway, she then started to ask why I was like that. After a while she said maybe we should take a break for a few months. I said "ok". After that we talked a bit more until I told her I'm going to bed and can we talk tomorrow (sunday). We talked on sunday and she didn't mention not meeting up again. We ended the conversation last night with her asking could she be in my dreams!

So the test was her telling me we shouldn't meet again and seeing how I'd react. By showing her I was willing to walk away it showed strength of character. If I would have begged like in the past that could have been the end.

Thats 1 example. As somebody else said the best way to pass these sh!t tests is to develop a DJ mindset and that way you won't even know or care if you're being tested.


Check out the 'sh!t test everybody fails' link in my signature

 

[DonGorgon]

so, what is this "REAL YOU" you guys claim? lets clarify this with examples

some guys here, are use the basic rules when it comes to dating/dealing with women and women test them to see the "REAL THEM"

I have noticed this but there is no "real me" cause i have a dynamic adaptive personality.. it takes an advanced female to understand that.