"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Women talk crap if you don't look at them right

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Situation, you walking down a street, and notice a pair of women walking your way. If both didn't have acne face they'd be HB6 and HB7. You look at them and away, as if not interested. Naturally not interested, not something done on purpose. The one says to the other some kind of crap, like that guy is ....

So if you diss them, if you don't give them what they want, they lower you in standing to treat their ego right.

Animals.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I've seen girls go from being the most beautiful girl I ever saw to being just average - and back. Or you can be talking to a woman 30 years older and she'll be hurt if you look at another woman. We need to treat all women as if they are the most beautiful girl we know. For them, if we tell them they aren't pretty it is to tell them they won't survive.
 

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backseatjuan said:
Situation, you walking down a street, and notice a pair of women walking your way. If both didn't have acne face they'd be HB6 and HB7. You look at them and away, as if not interested. Naturally not interested, not something done on purpose. The one says to the other some kind of crap, like that guy is ....

So if you diss them, if you don't give them what they want, they lower you in standing to treat their ego right.

Animals.

People do that literally all the time. They lower other people just to feed their own ego.

Why would you even care about that ? I'd probably get a good laugh out of it.
 

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Well I don't care, I just went to bank and on my way saw that, then drank some beer and browsed some site and come to sosuave, and wrote what came to mind lol.
 

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it's all about security, when you look down on them they get insecure, so to make up for that, they bring you down to a lower level

i've noticed the same thing.
at work there was this say HB6 who always had these satellite boys running around her..anyway i was just not into her cuz ,so these guys they get rejected one after another while this cvnt goes up the b!tch scale thinking she should be worshiped by every man...
one day i hear her tell the girls "switch is just an as$hole , bet he is a desperate virgin blah blah blah "
*sigh* women
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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bigneil said:
We need to treat all women as if they are the most beautiful girl we know.
An interesting comment. Do you think this is true? A lot of pickup advice seems to be centered around the idea of conveying ideas like "I'm not that impressed with you. You're pretty, but that doesn't make you special, what else do you have to offer? You're pretty, but there are hotter women - wow, look at that hot woman over there. You have some appearance flaws and I'm going to neg you about them. You're pretty, but I'm used to being around a lot more beautiful girls than you.".

I tend to waver back and forth about what the best approach is to take. On one hand, if a girl is particularly attractive, I will often try to pretend I don't even notice her beauty. On the other hand, sometimes you can compliment a girl on her appearance and you can just see her glow about it, and maybe get all redfaced and bashful.

Sometimes, you can share your attraction (like in the way you look at her), and it will be returned to you. Sometimes, acting like you are above her beauty will make you seem more attractive to her (like you're unobtainable). I think it's one of those paradoxical things - both are true at once, or in different situations.
 
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