"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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A lot of us saw her manipulating ways a few weeks ago, and mentioned what we saw
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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It does feel that way...


We were both very drunk, it's been a slow progression since she moved in 4 weeks ago, more touching, more comfortable with eachother etc. I don't think either of us wants to jeopardize a pretty cool home environment, home is meant to be a sanctuary/refuge from life so fvcking that up isn't a good move... I don't care if you think I should be charging her my D I have to live this life lol.

She gave me a semi while she had her feet on my lap so I let her feel it grow, I think that set off the evening, she wanted me to crack her back so I had my d!ck all rubbing on her, and she asked her a massage in her bed. She kept pushing herself onto me while we spooned, but she was quite aggressive (see drunk) with it.

If I smash... it's going to have to be a relationship, how can you casually see someone you live with, not tenable. My colleague said I should just wife her for the 6 month she's staying, she's hot, fun and I like having her around?
She's using feminity to manipulate you. Don't fall for it.
 

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I get that Spaz. But if I take drugs recreationally and still go to work each day, smash work, don’t let it affect my life then it’s not a problem right?
Okay. Moderation is the key word here.

Sazc got it right.

She's using her feminine wiles to get you all wrap up in her tiny little palms.

She's there renting. It's a business deal, be professional - set boundaries, enforce it by disciplining yourself.
 

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I’m overall happy with the setup up. It’s a new life experience, I told her to transfer all money owed to date and she sent me £800.

What can I say I’m enjoying the thrill and drama of it all. I think I thrive on it. I do appreciate all the responses though and I’ve made sure not to be taken advantage of.



The chick I watched a movie with wants to be with me, same girl I made a thread on before about her potentially being the one, but she wanted to settle down and have kids house etc (she’s just turned 29 and panicking). They hate each other. We all out again tomorrow for part two of my friends 30th. More news to follow.
 
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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Housemate called me just now, smashed at a work event with free bar which I warned her about. There's a tube strike on in central London so she needs to get an overground from a semi near location. She complains she cant afford to uber all the way home in her drunken babble. I tell her to walk.

Then she says to get a gram of coke for her as she'll be home in an hour - she's ubering all the way here.

Honestly the cheek of this b!tch she thought I would pay her uber home, she knows how much I earn as she saw a payslip so I think she's gonna keep pushing it til I tell her to fvck off, she's just put me on guard for the duration of her tenure
 
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