Women stop having sex, or "sexual desire" for men after they become mother

[Sega Genesis]

This is where so many men get it wrong... they automatically think that it must be some sort of loss of attraction physically, etc because that's why THEY would lose interest. But women are not men and it just doesn't work like that for many of them.

^^Thank you! 1000%!

I keep saying a woman's attraction is not the same as a man's attraction; made a post earlier about it. Maybe now since you said it @BackInTheGame78 , it will sink in!

Meaning she can think he's hot as hell physically but if he becomes a lazy bum or starts behaving like one of her children or she feels disrespected or under-appreciated as you described in your post, her desire is gonna dry up and she is NOT gonna want to f*ck him.

Yes of course there are exceptions. BE may be one per her post below, I don't know..

I defer to her on that unless by 'dead sexy' she means not only hot physically but a man who acts like a MAN and not like a lazy bum or child.

After a rethink, knowing BE, I'm gonna assume that is what she means.

If the woman wants to fvck the guy, if she thinks he's dead sexy? Then desire is not going to wane.

 

[BeExcellent]

Correct. Even the hottest guy in the world, if he acts like a douche, idiot or disgruntled manchild can screw it up. A fully mature man isn't going to be in that boat.

 

[Divorced w 3]

It’s bananas that the concept of a mother being tired and having less sex drive is so hard to wrap around some people’s minds here. Books and lectures are given on this topic and how couples can make time and compromise so that it can happen.

With that said, a woman who is in love with you and attracted to you will want to please you and that looks like having sex daily, near daily, or being pleased in alternate ways if she is having her period.

A woman who loves you and is attracted to you will give you miles of slack. It’s the man’s job to simply not hang himself with it. This is where humility and compromise come into play. This topic is partly about seduction and partly about compromise, maturity and relationship dynamics.

 

[Scaramouche]

Hi Jhonny,
I have five kids from two Marriages and though two Women make a small sample,I observed that during lactation,after recovering for a fortnight or so,their Libido became remarkably high,all those Kids bore a good resemblance to me,now only two.
Being a believer in Evolutionary Genetics,I rationalise that these characteristics have strong survival value,the Man being more likely to hang around and feed her and less likely to hurt the infant,and believe me that's a great temptation at times LOL.