"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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anyone else know how to make women cry when they look into your eyes? or they start laughing?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Laughing is normally nervousness.

I went to a David Dada seminar once in Seattle. “The way of the superior male”, I believe it was.

One of the drills is to sit across from one of the women. A random one. You then proceed to say “I love you” to her.
It is more difficult than you think. It took me a while with the first one. I repeated it over and over. The woman is tasked to coach you. She will say something like “that’s not right” repeatedly until it affects her emotionally.

When I got it right, she started crying. From that point on women would try to position themselves during drills to pair up with me. It was pretty strange to me. Knowing how to impinge on a woman in various forms of communication is directly related to success with women. Sexual and otherwise.

At the end of the seminar several women wanted to stay in contact with me. Wanted to be with me. Saying so openly and directly.
 

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Laughing is normally nervousness.

I went to a David Dada seminar once in Seattle. “The way of the superior male”, I believe it was.

One of the drills is to sit across from one of the women. A random one. You then proceed to say “I love you” to her.
It is more difficult than you think. It took me a while with the first one. I repeated it over and over. The woman is tasked to coach you. She will say something like “that’s not right” repeatedly until it affects her emotionally.

When I got it right, she started crying. From that point on women would try to position themselves during drills to pair up with me. It was pretty strange to me. Knowing how to impinge on a woman in various forms of communication is directly related to success with women. Sexual and otherwise.

At the end of the seminar several women wanted to stay in contact with me. Wanted to be with me. Saying so openly and directly.
you must of being present as fuark.
I've done it with eye contact only. the girl was laughing uncontrollably at me pointing at me laughing like crazy on the side of the dancefloor. this is all while she was looking me in the eye. I wasn't fazed by it because i was focused on my breathing. she ended up crying and still looking at me across the room.

also same night was other girls looking at me and laughing and fem gay guys lol. the gays also giggled.
 

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you must of being present as fuark.
I've done it with eye contact only. the girl was laughing uncontrollably at me pointing at me laughing like crazy on the side of the dancefloor. this is all while she was looking me in the eye. I wasn't fazed by it because i was focused on my breathing. she ended up crying and still looking at me across the room.

also same night was other girls looking at me and laughing and fem gay guys lol. the gays also giggled.
Just remember that eye contact as well as body language instantly communicates the right thing and/or the wrong things.

How you think in life and about yourself is transferred not just your thoughts.
 

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anyone else know how to make women cry when they look into your eyes? or they start laughing?
Going to need a lot more context to understand what it is you're asking. Are you talking about someone you just met? Someone you have been with for a year? And where is this taking place? You mentioned a dance floor.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Laughing is normally nervousness.

I went to a David Dada seminar once in Seattle. “The way of the superior male”, I believe it was.

One of the drills is to sit across from one of the women. A random one. You then proceed to say “I love you” to her.
It is more difficult than you think. It took me a while with the first one. I repeated it over and over. The woman is tasked to coach you. She will say something like “that’s not right” repeatedly until it affects her emotionally.

When I got it right, she started crying. From that point on women would try to position themselves during drills to pair up with me. It was pretty strange to me. Knowing how to impinge on a woman in various forms of communication is directly related to success with women. Sexual and otherwise.

At the end of the seminar several women wanted to stay in contact with me. Wanted to be with me. Saying so openly and directly.
This is fascinating, talk about suggestion being effective. This also explains how Charlie Manson was able to get others to murder for him.

Something I've known for a while now is that a lot of "opposite emotions" really aren't opposites at all, they are just one emotion. utter fear and utter joy both make your heart race. Sorrow and joy both make you cry. Nervousness and excitement are the same thing. What you perceive as feeling is just your mindset giving context to the physiologically expression of an emotion.
 

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just went to the grocery store. a women who looked me in the eyes and smiled. I also got opened by a milf shopper at the checkout. this being present stuff is powerful. if both these women were a little tipsy they would be trying to hookup. I haven't had a lot of experience during the day in front of a lot of people. done it at nighttime in clubs and during the day when people ain't around. anyone else experienced this stuff? reading into david deida's work.
 
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