Women really likes it when you’re appproach is spontaneous, unforced and authentic.

[Travel memoir21]

So I was out and about in my usual coffee shop today. I ordered my usual drink and sat down on a patio table outside.

Right after I sat down, I saw a familiar face and thought she went to high school with me and was in my driver’s ed class. I asked her if she went to the same high school as me but it turned out to be a different person.

One thing I noticed though is she was giving me indicators of interest and so was her friend. I had no intentions of picking her up, I was just curious and wanted to strike up a conversation. But now that I think of it, she was pretty cute and so was her friend. You know now that I think of it, women responds to these type of genuine spontaneous approach a lot better than a rather forced one. Maybe I can take a lesson from this, how do I make my approaches more genuine, spontaneous, sincere and seem unforced? I think women have natural bs detectors and its good if you’re coming from a place of heart and natural goodness.

 

[BillyPilgrim]

By being out and about while doing your thing and not dedicating blocks of time solely for gaming. Even if you want to just game, have a reason for your being out and about.

 

[SW15]

Roosh had a principle about this that he wrote about in May 2013...

One Approach A Day

 

[Gamisch]

I will make another thread about a similar topic that'd been on my mind for a couple of days. I will spoil my thread here and link both if necessary.

Many men ask and wonder where and how to meet new women ? They're looking for a one size fits all answers and get upset when certains methods dont work.

My answer to that question is:in the real world you'll find them. My daygame doesn't exist outta going out from x time to x time and talking to x amount of women.

No, i am ALWAYS ready to chat up a woman. Mind you, i dont say I cant be outside without "bothering " women; I carefully calculate my chances, like a predator on the hunt. I can go days or even weeks without "gaming" a new woman. But when a opportunity presents itself, i am ready for it.

To increase my chances I will be there where they are . A beach, a hiking path, the grocerystore, a festival/ party, a park ect,the gym. Apart from the parties , these are seemingly "innocent " places,making the "moviescene " even more surrealistic and romantic (and women love that feeling). The irony is that on such places women are much more open to have small talk. You could be asking for the time in a park(because your phone is out of power) and you already broke the ice. A sinple "hi" can even do this.

Once there is a indication of interest I will even convince her that I "normally don't do this". Like i said ,meeting a new woman must be like movie scene. Spontaneously yet very well executed from you as a man. She can be goofy all she likes, you can't. Thing is though, to compliment this i take good care of myself. Physically, mentally ,financially and spiritually.

When you take the anxiety out of approaching it becomes fun, and actually will happen more naturally. By anciety I mean ;
" pretty woman. Me must approach. Let me walk towards her in a straight line with a fast pace and ask her number".

I could be outside soley to find an opportunity with a woman but disguise it like an every day activity.

 

[espanish]

correct. if you are thinking while talking to a girl, then you are doing it wrong.