"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Women REALLY hate facial hair

Demonicale

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Urrrm no THEY DON'T, actually the last time i grew a beard i had 2 girls fighting for me!. They both said they had told me ages ago that i looked cool with it on holiday. I swear the sooner i had shaved it off, they both went off me. The point is while they're shallow, beards and facial hair DO make a difference!.

Just remember not EVERY women likes the same thing just as you don't like the same type of women as everyone else right?.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Part of being a man or spotted as one is facial hair. It's been like this since the dawn of mankind. And will not change. Social programming is the true "rooster
blocker".
 

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What about the Duck Dynasty guys? I'm starting to more guys copying this look.
 

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Donnx said:
Part of being a man or spotted as one is facial hair. It's been like this since the dawn of mankind. And will not change. Social programming is the true "rooster
blocker".
I used to think the same way, but it is now my belief that culture trumps nature. Have you ever seen a woman with unshaven legs and armpits and had your inner-beast turned on? I have not. I find it a turn off.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Johnny_Y_Mac said:
I used to think the same way, but it is now my belief that culture trumps nature. Have you ever seen a woman with unshaven legs and armpits and had your inner-beast turned on? I have not. I find it a turn off.
Nah, never has and never will. If that were true this new epidemic of facebooking spergy's would be getting laid like rockstars. Your in the wrong place to be pushing the equalist agenda. I suggest you stick around, get a few lays under your belt and maybe even grow some facial hair. You'll soon see this last 5 decades of social programming has been for naught.

Btw I'd bet dollars to donuts in a hypothetical scenario you were stuck on an island with an 8 who was without a razor your cack would be just as hard.
 

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Btw I'd bet dollars to donuts in a hypothetical scenario you were stuck on an island with an 8 who was without a razor your cack would be just as hard.
Haha true. But, if there were twin women on that island and one shaved, but the other one didn't, I would think the shaven women was much better looking and would be taking her much more often than the unshaven woman. Why would I think like this? It is socially programmed. For women, I believe it's more individual since in some social circles beard are accepted and others they are not.

Some women loved my beard but more than half hated it. I'm experimenting right now with a long hair (collar length) and beard to see if that combo works, but my hair has a long way to go. I'm looking at a 12 mos investment and Ill let you know how that goes.
 

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I recently grew a goatee and find I'm getting many positive comments. I was reticent to do so as my beard grows in as salt & pepper, even though my head hair is light brown.

I'm definitely garnering more positive female attention with the beard. But the thing that is very important is that it's nicely defined & well-trimmed.
 

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Johnny_Y_Mac said:
I used to think the same way, but it is now my belief that culture trumps nature. Have you ever seen a woman with unshaven legs and armpits and had your inner-beast turned on? I have not. I find it a turn off.
that's because 99.99% of women shave their legs armpits and mo's since you were born so you have been brought up to see this as normal. sure you will always get the odd glance at a chick who has a lil stubble but how often have you seen a full blown hairy leg on a female?

whereas there has always been a much higher % of men who have had beards all throughout history and continue to have them today so it is much more of a normal.

A beard is a natural sign for the one thing women love about men... what is it? TESTOSTERONE!!! it makes a man look like a man and gives her that feeling of seeing a raw beast instead of this shaved 12 year old boy look a like of a puzzy cat.

I'm all about the facial hair and think if you can grow a beard then DO IT but with a great beard comes great responsibility, don't have a caveman beard no one likes them. instead take good care of it, shave your neck beard ( gives her another place to kiss you ) wash it and condition it along with a good beard oil / hair tonic so you keep it nice and soft along with keeping your skin from flaking underneath it, get it trimmed if you see the need instead of having it wild. chicks say they don't like beards... that is absolute B.S they just don't like a badly maintained beard is all.

I don't know about my other fellow bearded men but I have had random chicks just come up to me and start stroking my beard and BAM instant kino opening to start touching and feeling her. so it is an instant win! plus who doesn't like a good beard stroking oh and her bearded clam haha.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Johnny_Y_Mac said:
I used to think the same way, but it is now my belief that culture trumps nature. Have you ever seen a woman with unshaven legs and armpits and had your inner-beast turned on? I have not. I find it a turn off.

I can understand your thoughts. But remember, someone or something you observed/learned in your life taught you that this to be normal and attractive. The reason why women shave because us perverted men love younger women who naturally don't possess that hair you speak of at their ripe age. I tell you this, I like women no matter if they are French with hair in the armpits or have hairs around the a-hole. As long as I see 2 natural pie holes between those legs. I am good. :woo:

If you consider history, fads, culture, fashion fades in time. Nature doesn't. It doesn't care about the downed economy, nor politics. Trees, stars, the sun, animals and the world keeps going forward in my world.
 

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:wave: its not about the facial hair its about shown the ALPHA u gotta give her a GUN SHOW or get her to go str8 2 bone zone

if ur not ALPHA ull be a looser lol :cuss:
 

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Who gives a **** if they like it, we're MEN and we do what we WANT. I've now completed my beard look, so i shall let you guys know what kind of attention i get.

But the man makes the beard, not the beard makes the man.
 

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I rock the ole 3-day-no-shave look. Chicks dig the look but they hate the way it feels against their neck. I gave a woman a terrible rash one time because of my stubble...didn't stop her from fvcking me though.
 

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Hello. I am from Greece and in my country the 2 basic things that women find attractive in a man's appearance are facial hair and height! Its like a new wave of fashion there. You almost see everyone with a beard mostly the ages under 30. Kinda pathetic. So I disagree with the thread. It all depends in culture and fashion waves because most people(especially women) are sheep.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I have a full beard. Used to have a goatee. My head is shaved because I'm going bald.

Beards are "in" right now. I get more play with the full beard.
 

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How about being a man and doing whatever the **** you want? I think what women find attractive is a guy who's a leader and not a follower of trends, who'll grow a beard or shave it just because somebody told them it's the inn look.

Grow some balls and do your own thing.
 

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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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