"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Women REALLY hate facial hair

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Urrrm no THEY DON'T, actually the last time i grew a beard i had 2 girls fighting for me!. They both said they had told me ages ago that i looked cool with it on holiday. I swear the sooner i had shaved it off, they both went off me. The point is while they're shallow, beards and facial hair DO make a difference!.

Just remember not EVERY women likes the same thing just as you don't like the same type of women as everyone else right?.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Part of being a man or spotted as one is facial hair. It's been like this since the dawn of mankind. And will not change. Social programming is the true "rooster
blocker".
 

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What about the Duck Dynasty guys? I'm starting to more guys copying this look.
 

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Donnx said:
Part of being a man or spotted as one is facial hair. It's been like this since the dawn of mankind. And will not change. Social programming is the true "rooster
blocker".
I used to think the same way, but it is now my belief that culture trumps nature. Have you ever seen a woman with unshaven legs and armpits and had your inner-beast turned on? I have not. I find it a turn off.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Johnny_Y_Mac said:
I used to think the same way, but it is now my belief that culture trumps nature. Have you ever seen a woman with unshaven legs and armpits and had your inner-beast turned on? I have not. I find it a turn off.
Nah, never has and never will. If that were true this new epidemic of facebooking spergy's would be getting laid like rockstars. Your in the wrong place to be pushing the equalist agenda. I suggest you stick around, get a few lays under your belt and maybe even grow some facial hair. You'll soon see this last 5 decades of social programming has been for naught.

Btw I'd bet dollars to donuts in a hypothetical scenario you were stuck on an island with an 8 who was without a razor your cack would be just as hard.
 

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Btw I'd bet dollars to donuts in a hypothetical scenario you were stuck on an island with an 8 who was without a razor your cack would be just as hard.
Haha true. But, if there were twin women on that island and one shaved, but the other one didn't, I would think the shaven women was much better looking and would be taking her much more often than the unshaven woman. Why would I think like this? It is socially programmed. For women, I believe it's more individual since in some social circles beard are accepted and others they are not.

Some women loved my beard but more than half hated it. I'm experimenting right now with a long hair (collar length) and beard to see if that combo works, but my hair has a long way to go. I'm looking at a 12 mos investment and Ill let you know how that goes.
 

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I recently grew a goatee and find I'm getting many positive comments. I was reticent to do so as my beard grows in as salt & pepper, even though my head hair is light brown.

I'm definitely garnering more positive female attention with the beard. But the thing that is very important is that it's nicely defined & well-trimmed.
 

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Johnny_Y_Mac said:
I used to think the same way, but it is now my belief that culture trumps nature. Have you ever seen a woman with unshaven legs and armpits and had your inner-beast turned on? I have not. I find it a turn off.
that's because 99.99% of women shave their legs armpits and mo's since you were born so you have been brought up to see this as normal. sure you will always get the odd glance at a chick who has a lil stubble but how often have you seen a full blown hairy leg on a female?

whereas there has always been a much higher % of men who have had beards all throughout history and continue to have them today so it is much more of a normal.

A beard is a natural sign for the one thing women love about men... what is it? TESTOSTERONE!!! it makes a man look like a man and gives her that feeling of seeing a raw beast instead of this shaved 12 year old boy look a like of a puzzy cat.

I'm all about the facial hair and think if you can grow a beard then DO IT but with a great beard comes great responsibility, don't have a caveman beard no one likes them. instead take good care of it, shave your neck beard ( gives her another place to kiss you ) wash it and condition it along with a good beard oil / hair tonic so you keep it nice and soft along with keeping your skin from flaking underneath it, get it trimmed if you see the need instead of having it wild. chicks say they don't like beards... that is absolute B.S they just don't like a badly maintained beard is all.

I don't know about my other fellow bearded men but I have had random chicks just come up to me and start stroking my beard and BAM instant kino opening to start touching and feeling her. so it is an instant win! plus who doesn't like a good beard stroking oh and her bearded clam haha.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Johnny_Y_Mac said:
I used to think the same way, but it is now my belief that culture trumps nature. Have you ever seen a woman with unshaven legs and armpits and had your inner-beast turned on? I have not. I find it a turn off.

I can understand your thoughts. But remember, someone or something you observed/learned in your life taught you that this to be normal and attractive. The reason why women shave because us perverted men love younger women who naturally don't possess that hair you speak of at their ripe age. I tell you this, I like women no matter if they are French with hair in the armpits or have hairs around the a-hole. As long as I see 2 natural pie holes between those legs. I am good. :woo:

If you consider history, fads, culture, fashion fades in time. Nature doesn't. It doesn't care about the downed economy, nor politics. Trees, stars, the sun, animals and the world keeps going forward in my world.
 

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:wave: its not about the facial hair its about shown the ALPHA u gotta give her a GUN SHOW or get her to go str8 2 bone zone

if ur not ALPHA ull be a looser lol :cuss:
 

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Who gives a **** if they like it, we're MEN and we do what we WANT. I've now completed my beard look, so i shall let you guys know what kind of attention i get.

But the man makes the beard, not the beard makes the man.
 

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I rock the ole 3-day-no-shave look. Chicks dig the look but they hate the way it feels against their neck. I gave a woman a terrible rash one time because of my stubble...didn't stop her from fvcking me though.
 

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Hello. I am from Greece and in my country the 2 basic things that women find attractive in a man's appearance are facial hair and height! Its like a new wave of fashion there. You almost see everyone with a beard mostly the ages under 30. Kinda pathetic. So I disagree with the thread. It all depends in culture and fashion waves because most people(especially women) are sheep.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I have a full beard. Used to have a goatee. My head is shaved because I'm going bald.

Beards are "in" right now. I get more play with the full beard.
 

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How about being a man and doing whatever the **** you want? I think what women find attractive is a guy who's a leader and not a follower of trends, who'll grow a beard or shave it just because somebody told them it's the inn look.

Grow some balls and do your own thing.
 

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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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