"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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women prefer stubble...

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http://www.telegraph.co.uk/earth/main.jhtml?xml=/earth/2008/06/29/scistubble129.xml

"Women participating in the research rated men with stubble as tough, mature, aggressive, dominant and masculine - and as the best romantic partners, either for a fling or a long-term relationships....The explanation for the preference is not clear, but experts in human evolution say that that facial hair may be a signal of aggression because it boosts the apparent size of the lower jaw, emphasising the teeth as weapons."
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Heh, interesting, I always thought that clean shaven was the best way to go, guess I was wrong (again :p)

EDIT:// Btw .. is that quote right? I would think sex for money would cost MORE?
 

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I've always wondered about this. I know when I am clean shaven chicks are interested but it's kinda passive. When I have a 3-5 days growth then I noticed chicks are more attracted to me. I differ from the article though because after about 5 days growth womens interest goes back down to where my clean shaven interest lies. I think I may buy an electric razor to keep the 3 days groth on at all times.
 

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Given that some of us under 25 can grow beards and facial stubble, I fail to see why this is in the mature man's section.
 

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I get the best reactions when I've about half an inch on my beard. And I'm 16.. Had it since I was 14.. Most of my friends are getting it around now too, I don't know what you're tlaking about 25.

DO whatever works best for you, but I don't like clean shaven because it exposes my 1.5 chin.

Tip to fatties: if you lift your head up a little you get a better face proportion and it hides your neck fat
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Dam and I thought it was because of my tight glutes and sexy white silver hair ol' well..

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this makes sense...it's the whole bad boy thing.
 

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Emphasising the teeth as weapons is the part I don't get....Umm Ok man don't mess with me or I'll bite you:crack up:

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The explanation for the preference is not clear, but experts in human evolution say that that facial hair may be a signal of aggression because it boosts the apparent size of the lower jaw, emphasising the teeth as weapons
 

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I had stubble for awhile but girls said I looked like an Al Qaeda guy (and I'm not even Middle Eastern/Arabic)
 

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I've found that girls seem to find me more attractive with a couple of days worth of stubble, BUT once you start getting intimate they hate it because its so rough.

Lol after one time when the girls neck was bright red for an hour from rubbing against my stubble while I was kissing her neck, I try to keep it under control.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Facial hair is a masculine trait. Makes sense that a lot of women would find it attractive.

I can't count the number of times women have looked at my stubble and said "What's up with this? I kinda like it though...."
 

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My friend experimented with both. He says he gets different types of girls attracted to him. He says he gets about the same about of girls with or without stubble they are just different types of girls. Some girls love it some hate it. Most girls I've dated hated it.
 

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Ha wow. It looks bad when I grow out my facial hairs. I don't know how, but after 3-5 days without shaving I get red hairs that grow with the black ones so it doesn't look too great.
 

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LoneSilver said:
Emphasising the teeth as weapons is the part I don't get....Umm Ok man don't mess with me or I'll bite you:crack up:

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The explanation for the preference is not clear, but experts in human evolution say that that facial hair may be a signal of aggression because it boosts the apparent size of the lower jaw, emphasising the teeth as weapons
Funny you bring this up. On the local news here in LA, there was a story yesterday about 2 dudes who got in a fight in a fast food drive thru line. One of the guys literally bit the other guy's nose off and spit it out on the ground. When he was at the police station he was boasting about how good the blood tasted...:crackup:
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Alright, just for this thread, I WON'T SHAVE THIS MORNING!!!:rockon:
 

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I never shave. I bought one of those Wahl beard trimmers for like $20 a while back and it works awesome. I get to keep my 3 day stubble and only need to shave my neck.

Ladies do love the stubble, but not so much the full beard. I experimented with this once and although I thought it looked epic, I think it intimidated the girls.
 
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