"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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women prefer stubble...

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http://www.telegraph.co.uk/earth/main.jhtml?xml=/earth/2008/06/29/scistubble129.xml

"Women participating in the research rated men with stubble as tough, mature, aggressive, dominant and masculine - and as the best romantic partners, either for a fling or a long-term relationships....The explanation for the preference is not clear, but experts in human evolution say that that facial hair may be a signal of aggression because it boosts the apparent size of the lower jaw, emphasising the teeth as weapons."
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Heh, interesting, I always thought that clean shaven was the best way to go, guess I was wrong (again :p)

EDIT:// Btw .. is that quote right? I would think sex for money would cost MORE?
 

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I've always wondered about this. I know when I am clean shaven chicks are interested but it's kinda passive. When I have a 3-5 days growth then I noticed chicks are more attracted to me. I differ from the article though because after about 5 days growth womens interest goes back down to where my clean shaven interest lies. I think I may buy an electric razor to keep the 3 days groth on at all times.
 

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Given that some of us under 25 can grow beards and facial stubble, I fail to see why this is in the mature man's section.
 

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I get the best reactions when I've about half an inch on my beard. And I'm 16.. Had it since I was 14.. Most of my friends are getting it around now too, I don't know what you're tlaking about 25.

DO whatever works best for you, but I don't like clean shaven because it exposes my 1.5 chin.

Tip to fatties: if you lift your head up a little you get a better face proportion and it hides your neck fat
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Dam and I thought it was because of my tight glutes and sexy white silver hair ol' well..

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this makes sense...it's the whole bad boy thing.
 

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Emphasising the teeth as weapons is the part I don't get....Umm Ok man don't mess with me or I'll bite you:crack up:

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The explanation for the preference is not clear, but experts in human evolution say that that facial hair may be a signal of aggression because it boosts the apparent size of the lower jaw, emphasising the teeth as weapons
 

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I had stubble for awhile but girls said I looked like an Al Qaeda guy (and I'm not even Middle Eastern/Arabic)
 

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I've found that girls seem to find me more attractive with a couple of days worth of stubble, BUT once you start getting intimate they hate it because its so rough.

Lol after one time when the girls neck was bright red for an hour from rubbing against my stubble while I was kissing her neck, I try to keep it under control.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Facial hair is a masculine trait. Makes sense that a lot of women would find it attractive.

I can't count the number of times women have looked at my stubble and said "What's up with this? I kinda like it though...."
 

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My friend experimented with both. He says he gets different types of girls attracted to him. He says he gets about the same about of girls with or without stubble they are just different types of girls. Some girls love it some hate it. Most girls I've dated hated it.
 

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Ha wow. It looks bad when I grow out my facial hairs. I don't know how, but after 3-5 days without shaving I get red hairs that grow with the black ones so it doesn't look too great.
 

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LoneSilver said:
Emphasising the teeth as weapons is the part I don't get....Umm Ok man don't mess with me or I'll bite you:crack up:

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The explanation for the preference is not clear, but experts in human evolution say that that facial hair may be a signal of aggression because it boosts the apparent size of the lower jaw, emphasising the teeth as weapons
Funny you bring this up. On the local news here in LA, there was a story yesterday about 2 dudes who got in a fight in a fast food drive thru line. One of the guys literally bit the other guy's nose off and spit it out on the ground. When he was at the police station he was boasting about how good the blood tasted...:crackup:
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Alright, just for this thread, I WON'T SHAVE THIS MORNING!!!:rockon:
 

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I never shave. I bought one of those Wahl beard trimmers for like $20 a while back and it works awesome. I get to keep my 3 day stubble and only need to shave my neck.

Ladies do love the stubble, but not so much the full beard. I experimented with this once and although I thought it looked epic, I think it intimidated the girls.
 
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