Dash Riprock
Master Don Juan
Sex is a part of it, but I think most people get into LTRs and marriage because they hate being alone. Social Norms are still a huge influencer for marriage.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
women overrated?
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What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
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Dash Riprock
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I don't think women are overrated per se, I think most guys just have their priorities backwards. Instead of focusing on health, career, money, hobbies, side hustle, guy friends, whatever, they're solely focused on women -- to the expense of other facets of their life. You can only focus on and prioritize one thing at time. Otherwise, it waters down the soup in all other areas of your life.
Recently a SS poster, can't recall who, broke down a post of mine basically saying he disagreed with my philosophy of focusing on YOU and putting women and the pursuit thereof, in a secondary position. He said all his friends who found LTRs and marriage really focused on women and put them ahead of basically everything else. Damn, I couldn’t have disagreed more. But, whatever.
Women, girlfriends, STRs, LTRs, and marriages all come and go. Nothing is forever. The latest divorce trend are "gray divorces" where the divorce rate for those over 50 has doubled since 1990.
So why would a guy focus on women so hard when it's going to eventually end? Focusing on YOU and the important facets of your life will pay dividends for rest of your life. I just don't get it. But hey, that's me. I have deficiencies and flaws like everyone else, but insecurity and fear of being alone are not part of them.
Having spent a lot of time focusing on my dating skills FIRST... then taking a long hiatus and then coming back after getting my health and finances in line, if I went back in time, I'd start with health and finances first before coming to dating. But that's just me.
I think there's a ton of value in developing "dating skills" like communication, comedy, framing, etc. and I think there's a lot of value in studying masculine behaviors and whatnot. If that's focusing on women, I think there's a lot of benefit outside of just dating that it can bring to someone.
And as fun as dating can be, I don't really see a lot of fulfillment that comes from it. I can see it coming from long term relationships and having kids, etc. Assuming you get yourself into a good position with a quality woman... which is another reason you should probably focus on other things first.
It's difficult to recognize high quality and low quality people if you haven't done a lot of work on yourself, ime.
Serenity
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No it does not.
Truth right there. ^^^
The phrase that negatives attract negatives also apply IMO to quality. Low quality will attract low quality...