"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Women over 40 want kids? Why?

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In a bit of qunandry as I'm a mid-40s man that keeps running women that are 40+ wanting children. The main thing they all have in common is that they never had children, even though some have been married before and never had kids with the previous guy.

I even know this 47 year old woman that wants kids and I'm like "Really? So when your kid reaches 10 years old, and your 55 AARP retirement age, does that not appeal to you?"

It seems I better off dating single moms since you know pretty sure they don't want kids because they've been there, done that. lol
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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All women have an instinct for children especially if they have none of their own. I run into this all the time. And when they have children... they want grandchildren... Nothing new here except now modern science has pushed the window of opportunity to do this into her 40s.
 
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Women know what they want? When did this happen?
 
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ThisNThat said:
In a bit of qunandry as I'm a mid-40s man that keeps running women that are 40+ wanting children. The main thing they all have in common is that they never had children, even though some have been married before and never had kids with the previous guy.

I even know this 47 year old woman that wants kids and I'm like "Really? So when your kid reaches 10 years old, and your 55 AARP retirement age, does that not appeal to you?"

It seems I better off dating single moms since you know pretty sure they don't want kids because they've been there, done that. lol
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What's wrong with you, stupid jerk?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Well they have an instinct for that but there are also social factors about it.
Women in general are herd creature following fashion and social rules so while they are now allowed to be accepted by living a sex and the city life style, once they pass their 40s they slowly turn into backround noise with no attention from men and younger women too.

Once they find out that their character no longer works for validation and affiliation they simply turn back to the old route which grant them love and validation from a husband and kids plus a defined accepted social role.
She can afford being a radical when she is young and cute but once she gets old and unattractive she needs something solid to hold ground.
 
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