"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Women over 40 want kids? Why?

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In a bit of qunandry as I'm a mid-40s man that keeps running women that are 40+ wanting children. The main thing they all have in common is that they never had children, even though some have been married before and never had kids with the previous guy.

I even know this 47 year old woman that wants kids and I'm like "Really? So when your kid reaches 10 years old, and your 55 AARP retirement age, does that not appeal to you?"

It seems I better off dating single moms since you know pretty sure they don't want kids because they've been there, done that. lol
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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All women have an instinct for children especially if they have none of their own. I run into this all the time. And when they have children... they want grandchildren... Nothing new here except now modern science has pushed the window of opportunity to do this into her 40s.
 
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Women know what they want? When did this happen?
 
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ThisNThat said:
In a bit of qunandry as I'm a mid-40s man that keeps running women that are 40+ wanting children. The main thing they all have in common is that they never had children, even though some have been married before and never had kids with the previous guy.

I even know this 47 year old woman that wants kids and I'm like "Really? So when your kid reaches 10 years old, and your 55 AARP retirement age, does that not appeal to you?"

It seems I better off dating single moms since you know pretty sure they don't want kids because they've been there, done that. lol
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What's wrong with you, stupid jerk?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Well they have an instinct for that but there are also social factors about it.
Women in general are herd creature following fashion and social rules so while they are now allowed to be accepted by living a sex and the city life style, once they pass their 40s they slowly turn into backround noise with no attention from men and younger women too.

Once they find out that their character no longer works for validation and affiliation they simply turn back to the old route which grant them love and validation from a husband and kids plus a defined accepted social role.
She can afford being a radical when she is young and cute but once she gets old and unattractive she needs something solid to hold ground.
 
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