“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Women over 30 are Damaged Goods

SW15

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Men who intentionally go for:
  • older women
  • single mothers
...are only going for them for sex. Not a bond or relationship. Sex. Even the most bluepilled men who try to wife these women up do so out of a false sense of romance after getting enough sex [the typical trap of the women in the above categories]. It's dumpster diving for men. No betting on women above 30 ever. The articles are correct.
There are plenty of men who intentionally go for older women and/or single mothers.

Sex is a primary motivator there. Some men can only get women from one or both of those categories. These are men who take what they can get. That's a common thing that anyone can observe in any USA mating environment.

There are enough men willing to commit to LTRs/marriage to women 30+ and even women 30+ with kids.

Hell, even history is correct about this. Women were in the home by 25 with kids. The female gender is not made to be a single woman through the ages of 30 with nothing to show for it. Biologically and psychologically, it screws with the woman's mind, which is why we have an epidemic of mentally ill women with cats and dogs as their replacement for children.
More and more women are reaching age 30 as never married and childless women.

When I think of a 30+ woman who is never married and childless, I think of a White woman with a bachelor's degree + and a solid white collar career. They often have that privilege to fall back on.

I think there are a lot of mentally ill White women with good jobs and cats/dogs as child replacements. There's a reason that the Millennial generation in the USA has been the most pet obsessed generation ever.

This quote goes against all kinds of RP talking points. For one, that the 'Chad' type doesn't marry. Second, that women aren't eventually getting the average joes (what we used to call betas) regardless.
There are elite tier men that get married. There are guys with top physiques that get married. It might be later in life after pounding 50+ pussies.

I have a triple digit notch count friend who got married in his 30s. I believe he succumbed to societal pressure. Most of his local friends and his past college classmates got into more committed LTRs before he did. Then, many of them married before he did. His girlfriend gave him an ultimatum at one of the wedding receptions in our mutual social circle (this was a wedding I didn't attend -- heard the story after).

I think a lot of males experience a pair bonding desire in their 30s and that leads to a lot of marriages.

Many of these elite tier guys aren't actually monogamous in their marriages, even if they end up with a looks match tier woman as a wife.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Old and broke is a terrible combination in the mating marketplace. Old, broke, short, and with a 3 inch bald spot is even worse.
I meant "broke" metaphorically. I can now afford a budget Sugar Baby situation, LOL.
 

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There are enough men willing to commit to LTRs/marriage to women 30+ and even women 30+ with kids.
I'm not so sure of this. Bachelor men will date/bang single mommies, but unless they accidentally have a kid with one, they aren't going to marry. Divorced men with kids might marry. Even Incel-tier men avoid marrying single mommies.
 

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There are elite tier men that get married. There are guys with top physiques that get married. It might be later in life after pounding 50+ pussies.

I have a triple digit notch count friend who got married in his 30s. I believe he succumbed to societal pressure. Most of his local friends and his past college classmates got into more committed LTRs before he did. Then, many of them married before he did. His girlfriend gave him an ultimatum at one of the wedding receptions in our mutual social circle (this was a wedding I didn't attend -- heard the story after).

I think a lot of males experience a pair bonding desire in their 30s and that leads to a lot of marriages.

Many of these elite tier guys aren't actually monogamous in their marriages, even if they end up with a looks match tier woman as a wife.
Agreed...but it just goes to show, guys on SS will post things that conform to certain narratives in their minds. Instead of dealing with one woman at a time IRL it is stats, secondhand anecdotes, youtube "experts" spouting opinions, etc. All of the statistics and generalizations mean squat if you just go out and start a conversation with one woman.
 

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All of the statistics and generalizations mean squat if you just go out and start a conversation with one woman.
That fell out of fashion in '17, right alongside attending an event, listening to what the speaker actually says/perhaps even taking notes, then asking questions during Q&A, as opposed to engaging in stunts like

At the rate we're currently going, pliosauruses will once again prowl our oceans, looooooong before what you encourage becomes chic once again
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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I fact checked the claim about 90% of a woman's eggs being gone at age 30.

The verdict: Technically true (but misleading)

By the time a girl begins puberty, she's already lost 70% of the eggs she was born with.

Taking that into account, the fertility gap between a 20 year old and a 30 year old isn't as drastic as the 90% statistic (at face value) makes it sound.
 

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The problem is at that age they need to be dating with urgency and they don’t.

By 35 if she still single, it’s game over.

There are outliers but this is general true.
 
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