"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Women on Pill Stay Clear of "Ill" Men

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Women on Pill Stay Clear of "Ill" Men
February 16, 2005
The Herald

WOMEN who are pregnant or on the pill subconsciously avoid people whose faces do not look healthy, according to new research.

The teams, from Aberdeen and St Andrews universities, found that women's choice of both friends and possible romantic partners is guided by apparent health. At the root of it is an internal mechanism to avoid maternal illness.

Previous studies by psychologists at St Andrews' perception lab found that women at their most fertile times - where the progesterone hormone is high - are more particular about their choice of possible mate. Women tended to choose masculine-looking men, presumably in the hope of securing strong genes.

The new study shows that women with high levels of progesterone, but low levels of fertility, are also choosy.

This was true not just of pregnant women, but women with similar hormonal states.

Progesterone is raised in women who are pregnant, taking the oral contraceptive pill, or in weeks three and four of their menstrual cycle.

DrBen Jones, a lecturer at the psychology department of Aberdeen University and one of the authors of the paper, said: "Our findings suggest that pregnancy, orwhen a woman is in a similar hormonal state, trigger strategies within the body for avoiding illness during social interactions.

"These could compensate for weakened immune system responses at these times and reduce the risk of maternal illness disrupting the development of the unborn child."

The team carried out a series of studies, involving hundreds of women indicating their preference for computer-generated images of faces.

Participants were shown two pictures of the same face side by side and were asked to state their preference. The team made subtle adjustments to the synthesised faces to suggest one was healthier than the other, giving one an unhealthy pallor and the other a healthy glow.

Professor David Perrett, head of the perception lab at St Andrews, said: "We show that women's choice of both friends and possible romantic partners is also guided by apparent health."
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I guess this explains why guys in hospital beds don't get their bones jumped often... :D
 

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I didnt know this board was frequented by alot of pregnant women.

:confused:

post something i might care about thx.
 

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Originally posted by Julian
I didnt know this board was frequented by alot of pregnant women.

:confused:

post something i might care about thx.

THE POINT IS
Take care of your looks.

And personally I don't know you so I'll post things I am interested in.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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