"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Women on Pill Stay Clear of "Ill" Men

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Women on Pill Stay Clear of "Ill" Men
February 16, 2005
The Herald

WOMEN who are pregnant or on the pill subconsciously avoid people whose faces do not look healthy, according to new research.

The teams, from Aberdeen and St Andrews universities, found that women's choice of both friends and possible romantic partners is guided by apparent health. At the root of it is an internal mechanism to avoid maternal illness.

Previous studies by psychologists at St Andrews' perception lab found that women at their most fertile times - where the progesterone hormone is high - are more particular about their choice of possible mate. Women tended to choose masculine-looking men, presumably in the hope of securing strong genes.

The new study shows that women with high levels of progesterone, but low levels of fertility, are also choosy.

This was true not just of pregnant women, but women with similar hormonal states.

Progesterone is raised in women who are pregnant, taking the oral contraceptive pill, or in weeks three and four of their menstrual cycle.

DrBen Jones, a lecturer at the psychology department of Aberdeen University and one of the authors of the paper, said: "Our findings suggest that pregnancy, orwhen a woman is in a similar hormonal state, trigger strategies within the body for avoiding illness during social interactions.

"These could compensate for weakened immune system responses at these times and reduce the risk of maternal illness disrupting the development of the unborn child."

The team carried out a series of studies, involving hundreds of women indicating their preference for computer-generated images of faces.

Participants were shown two pictures of the same face side by side and were asked to state their preference. The team made subtle adjustments to the synthesised faces to suggest one was healthier than the other, giving one an unhealthy pallor and the other a healthy glow.

Professor David Perrett, head of the perception lab at St Andrews, said: "We show that women's choice of both friends and possible romantic partners is also guided by apparent health."
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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I guess this explains why guys in hospital beds don't get their bones jumped often... :D
 

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I didnt know this board was frequented by alot of pregnant women.

:confused:

post something i might care about thx.
 

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Originally posted by Julian
I didnt know this board was frequented by alot of pregnant women.

:confused:

post something i might care about thx.

THE POINT IS
Take care of your looks.

And personally I don't know you so I'll post things I am interested in.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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