"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Women On: Actors with sexiest behaviors/roles

everywomanshero

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15 women voted on these guy's behaviors and roles in film.

1st Place: Sean O'Conrey, Ben Afleck, J. Depp, and Brad Pitt.

Occasionally voted for, Denzel W., Snoop Dogg, Sam from Cheers, Rodulph Valentino, tom Cruise.

Never voted for: Ryan from AMC, Adam Sandler, Ben Stiller, James Dean, Jackie Chan.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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The only one I'm surprised about is Ben Afflect. That guy has NO charisma.
 

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i'm sure the girls that thought snoop dog's behavior was sexy were classy girls:rolleyes:
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I'm not at all surprised about Sean Connery.
He's a pimp.
 

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I think James Dean are one of those guys that other guys crush on. A little too serious to be sexy to women though.
 

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A sample group of 15 respondents might not be quite enough to be representative...
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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youknowtherest said:
Surprised about James Dean.

Very surprised about James Dean.
The women who voted on that don't even know who James Dean is :)
 

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If they were relatively young women, most likely they've never seen any of James Dean's movies. Right now I can only think of 2 of Affleck's movies I've seen (Dogma and Boiler Room), and I thought he was pretty Alpha in Boiler Room, although nowhere near as Alpha as Vin Diesel.

But believe it or not, I thought Tom Cruise (or his character anyway) was way Alpha in M:I 2 (haven't seen 3 yet). That rock climbing scene toward the start of the movie, where he doesn't lose his cool when he nearly falls. Then that high speed chase where the Nyah character (his love interest in the movie) says "if you want me, you're gonna have to catch me", and you can see he's just loving the challenge.

I'm almost as surprised about Jackie Chan as I was about James Dean. The guy has the ba!!s to do ALL his own stunts, putting his body and (depending on the stunt) his life on the line. But like someone said about James Dean, maybe the women didn't know who he was :confused:
 
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