"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Women On: Actors with sexiest behaviors/roles

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15 women voted on these guy's behaviors and roles in film.

1st Place: Sean O'Conrey, Ben Afleck, J. Depp, and Brad Pitt.

Occasionally voted for, Denzel W., Snoop Dogg, Sam from Cheers, Rodulph Valentino, tom Cruise.

Never voted for: Ryan from AMC, Adam Sandler, Ben Stiller, James Dean, Jackie Chan.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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The only one I'm surprised about is Ben Afflect. That guy has NO charisma.
 
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i'm sure the girls that thought snoop dog's behavior was sexy were classy girls:rolleyes:
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I'm not at all surprised about Sean Connery.
He's a pimp.
 
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I think James Dean are one of those guys that other guys crush on. A little too serious to be sexy to women though.
 
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A sample group of 15 respondents might not be quite enough to be representative...
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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youknowtherest said:
Surprised about James Dean.

Very surprised about James Dean.
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The women who voted on that don't even know who James Dean is :)
 
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If they were relatively young women, most likely they've never seen any of James Dean's movies. Right now I can only think of 2 of Affleck's movies I've seen (Dogma and Boiler Room), and I thought he was pretty Alpha in Boiler Room, although nowhere near as Alpha as Vin Diesel.

But believe it or not, I thought Tom Cruise (or his character anyway) was way Alpha in M:I 2 (haven't seen 3 yet). That rock climbing scene toward the start of the movie, where he doesn't lose his cool when he nearly falls. Then that high speed chase where the Nyah character (his love interest in the movie) says "if you want me, you're gonna have to catch me", and you can see he's just loving the challenge.

I'm almost as surprised about Jackie Chan as I was about James Dean. The guy has the ba!!s to do ALL his own stunts, putting his body and (depending on the stunt) his life on the line. But like someone said about James Dean, maybe the women didn't know who he was :confused:
 
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