Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Women On: Actors with sexiest behaviors/roles

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15 women voted on these guy's behaviors and roles in film.

1st Place: Sean O'Conrey, Ben Afleck, J. Depp, and Brad Pitt.

Occasionally voted for, Denzel W., Snoop Dogg, Sam from Cheers, Rodulph Valentino, tom Cruise.

Never voted for: Ryan from AMC, Adam Sandler, Ben Stiller, James Dean, Jackie Chan.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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The only one I'm surprised about is Ben Afflect. That guy has NO charisma.
 
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i'm sure the girls that thought snoop dog's behavior was sexy were classy girls:rolleyes:
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I'm not at all surprised about Sean Connery.
He's a pimp.
 
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I think James Dean are one of those guys that other guys crush on. A little too serious to be sexy to women though.
 
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A sample group of 15 respondents might not be quite enough to be representative...
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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youknowtherest said:
Surprised about James Dean.

Very surprised about James Dean.
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The women who voted on that don't even know who James Dean is :)
 
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If they were relatively young women, most likely they've never seen any of James Dean's movies. Right now I can only think of 2 of Affleck's movies I've seen (Dogma and Boiler Room), and I thought he was pretty Alpha in Boiler Room, although nowhere near as Alpha as Vin Diesel.

But believe it or not, I thought Tom Cruise (or his character anyway) was way Alpha in M:I 2 (haven't seen 3 yet). That rock climbing scene toward the start of the movie, where he doesn't lose his cool when he nearly falls. Then that high speed chase where the Nyah character (his love interest in the movie) says "if you want me, you're gonna have to catch me", and you can see he's just loving the challenge.

I'm almost as surprised about Jackie Chan as I was about James Dean. The guy has the ba!!s to do ALL his own stunts, putting his body and (depending on the stunt) his life on the line. But like someone said about James Dean, maybe the women didn't know who he was :confused:
 
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