Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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I had this happen all the time in the recent past and I am so fed up with it that I need to deal with it.

I do daygame. So I am out in the city walking around. I find a girl who is on her own and who is my type. I am approaching and every time some dude I did not see starts kissing her hugging her then and there.

I want to know how to deal with that. Literally. Making her laugh is unrealistic in that situation. We all know that women don't want to decide and if in doubt they stay with that sh.ithead.

I do not want to be friends with him.

No, it is not her best friend or brother. I am intelligent enough to distinguish that.

Terms of reply:

  1. Don't give me the moral rap
  2. Don't give me the I-will-beat-you-up-if-you-did-that-to-my-girl rap
  3. Answer the question only
 
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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wtf how is this always happening in day game?

are we talking about you seeing a random girl alone in a city square, and as soon as you start the approach a guy comes from nowhere and starts to kiss and hug her? that makes little sense to me, although i will not say it is impossible.

maybe there are other guys out there running a more sophisticated game: i.e. one where they watch the guys who are getting ready to zero in on a girl and they swoop in and play the ****y/funny white knight that they wouldn't have been able to play had there been no rival PUA to white knight against.

if i am confused then oh well. good luck.
 

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Philippe Schlichting said:
I had this happen all the time in the recent past and I am so fed up with it that I need to deal with it.

I do daygame. So I am out in the city walking around. I find a girl who is on her own and who is my type. I am approaching and every time some dude I did not see starts kissing her hugging her then and there.

I want to know how to deal with that. Literally. Making her laugh is unrealistic in that situation. We all know that women don't want to decide and if in doubt they stay with that sh.ithead.

I do not want to be friends with him.

No, it is not her best friend or brother. I am intelligent enough to distinguish that.

Terms of reply:

  1. Don't give me the moral rap
  2. Don't give me the I-will-beat-you-up-if-you-did-that-to-my-girl rap
  3. Answer the question or shut up

Perhaps you aren't intelligent enough to restrain yourself from daygame approaching women outside of every Bridal shop in the city.
 

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approaching woman with boyfriends, you want to climb mount everest before your even able to do a pull up.. my friend
 

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Maybe they are happy, spend more time finding single girls
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Terms of reply:

  1. Don't give me the moral rap
  2. Don't give me the I-will-beat-you-up-if-you-did-that-to-my-girl rap
  3. Answer the question or shut up
 

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Well, if your approach with women is anything like your attempt to control interactions here on the board: no wonder you FAIL. You put the question out: it's laughable for you to think you will be able to control the responses...maybe you just suck at Game.....?
 
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Well, if your approach with women is anything like your attempt to control interactions here on the board: no wonder you FAIL. You put the question out: it's laughable for you to think you will be able to control the responses...maybe you just suck at Game.....?
Some people might think that I want to hear them insult me so I clarify that I do not want that. If people - in spite of this - write useless text just like you I just block them. This helps me weed out people who are 100% certainly not here to help me. So this way or another it is very useful to write that.
 

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That's just how it is with day game. Get used to it. 90% of women are taken. 99.9% of hot women are taken.

Day game can, IMHO, get you the hottest chicks but your success ratio is atrocious. You could approach 50 different chicks in a day, get rejected 48 times, beaten up once and arrested once. Go home and have nothing to show for your troubles. Next day you go to a dog park or whatnot and boom, the first girl you see is a 9 and is single.

If you're in a big city just move on to the next. No sense in trying to do a boyfriend destroyer or whatever with the guy right there.

Some people might think that I want to hear them insult me so I clarify that I do not want that. If people - in spite of this - write useless text just like you I just block them. This helps me weed out people who are 100% certainly not here to help me. So this way or another it is very useful to write that.
I agree. Most people here are idiots. Most people online period are idiots. I wish thread starters had the ability to delete comments.

Check this out:

http://www.theattractionforums.com/day-game/157118-official-boyfriend-destroyer-thread.html
 

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Philippe Schlichting said:
Some people might think that I want to hear them insult me so I clarify that I do not want that. If people - in spite of this - write useless text just like you I just block them. This helps me weed out people who are 100% certainly not here to help me. So this way or another it is very useful to write that.
Be ready to :box: or :woo: if you're gonna keep trying to pick up girls with their boyfriend right there. Not gonna lecture you on morals, but damn dude, make sure their boyfriend's not in the physical vicinity would be your best bet.

I don't think there's a magical answer to your question, which is what you seem to expect. Chloroform the boyfriend, perhaps? I'm assuming you're talking about girls with their boyfriends present, not just girls that HAVE boyfriends, am I correct?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Be ready to or if you're gonna keep trying to pick up girls with their boyfriend right there. Not gonna lecture you on morals, but damn dude, make sure their boyfriend's not in the physical vicinity would be your best bet.

I don't think there's a magical answer to your question, which is what you seem to expect. Chloroform the boyfriend, perhaps? I'm assuming you're talking about girls with their boyfriends present, not just girls that HAVE boyfriends, am I correct?
That's just how it is with day game. Get used to it. 90% of women are taken. 99.9% of hot women are taken.

Day game can, IMHO, get you the hottest chicks but your success ratio is atrocious. You could approach 50 different chicks in a day, get rejected 48 times, beaten up once and arrested once. Go home and have nothing to show for your troubles. Next day you go to a dog park or whatnot and boom, the first girl you see is a 9 and is single.

If you're in a big city just move on to the next. No sense in trying to do a boyfriend destroyer or whatever with the guy right there.
Answer the question or shut up.
 

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Philippe Schlichting said:
Answer the question or shut up.
I like how you didn't answer my question after I was trying to help you. Someone sounds sexually frustrated.
 
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Groblin said:
I like how you didn't answer my question after I was trying to help you. Someone sounds sexually frustrated.
Oh, did I hurt your feelings?
 

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Philippe Schlichting said:
Answer the question or shut up.
Listen you fvcking douchebag bro'd out jersey shore piece of sh1t. These guys are giving you ADVICE. That is what this forum is about ADVICE. No need to come in here and be an a$$hole to us alright.

Thats dayame, thats life, so what girls are taken and now youre sick of a girl being taken by another man? You must be jealous of their "Success" with women because women are everything to you arent they? Building your happiness around getting a woman is like setting up a house with straw.

You like hitting on girls with boyfriends, fine. I ve done it, we all have done it but whats the point? Thats so much work to get her to cheat on her boyfriend , many nights of blue balls and teasing when you could just go out and get a single girl and then your problems will be alleviated.

Lol @Groblin that would make sense since he is going for girls with BOYFRIENDS. Jesus man if you want sex go get a SINGLE GIRL. It only takes 1 date as opposed to many with one girl with a BF.... some people i swear
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Listen you fvcking douchebag

Didn't read any further. Watch your tone.
 

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Philippe Schlichting said:
Oh, did I hurt your feelings?
Seems like I hurt yours. "Answer the question or shut up." :crackup:

Troll better.
 
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Groblin said:
Seems like I hurt yours. "Answer the question or shut up." :crackup:

Troll better.
You shouldn't suppress your anger, let it out, punch a pillow :D
 

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Join them in a group hug bro!

Fake Alpha's ftw!
 

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When will you people learn.

Don't feed the trolls.

It was clear from the start he was baiting you all.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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